Glowy sun Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Just wanted to let anyone who saw my posts from last year that I'm still married and am further convinced my wife is the love of my life. This is two years after she cheated on me, one and a half years after we almost split up when we opened up our marriage and I fell in love with another woman, and a year after she cheated on me again. It may sound insurmountable, but a good dose of therapy and a lot of opening up to each other and our friends has helped immensely. To those of you who are still wondering if you have a future, I say don't give up on your marriage until you've exhausted every avenue. Plus we have a kitty now!
MidwestUSA Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 Is your marriage now closed, with no thoughts of opening it up again? Congrats on the kitty; I went 50 years thinking I'd never want or like one - now I have two!
Author Glowy sun Posted June 23, 2014 Author Posted June 23, 2014 Is your marriage now closed, with no thoughts of opening it up again? Congrats on the kitty; I went 50 years thinking I'd never want or like one - now I have two! There was a stage where we were like, well we'll open it up again someday, but that just seems to put everyone in a bad mood. Sometimes we get wistful for that time, but, at least on my end, those nostalgic thoughts are paired with some fairly painful ones, so closed marriage with no thoughts of opening it up again anymore. Thanks for the kitty congrats! I never thought I'd have one either. Let's hope we keep it to one!
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