brokenpotato Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Hi there. I got dumped by my ex about 2 months ago. For whatever the reason is, i dont know. But the final reason he gave was that he fell out of love. After the break up, it's so weird because one minute he's like tweeting all these stuff saying im worth it and indirectly tweeting at me. Then the next he's super cold like trying to hurt me on purpose. Like he changes a picture of him with another girl. I just can't figure it out if he actually really misses me and is waiting for a miracle or is he just playing me. Like i bumped into him 2 months after we broke up(which is just a few days ago). I pretended i never saw him and he quickly approached me before i walked away. Later that night he called me. And he tweeted "i miss you". I feel like he did miss me that night but then he regrets letting me know then he does something to hurt me indirectly. (like changing his whatsapp picture of him with another girl) I'm so confused and i know that he really isnt the type to play around. But then again, maybe i'm wrong. But ever since the break up, everything he did was just so contradicting. We never talked. But, its like. We tweeted indirectly. He wouldnt respond to any of my messages and stuff. His tweets and tumblr is like he is in love and etc etc. I asked him if he is. He said "no. I'm just doing it to act like he is normal or some ****." More things to know:- - we were together for a little under 2 years. - i never told any of my family we were together i had to lie when we wanted to go out. (he did tweet stuff like "why hide" after the break up) - other of his excuses was that he needed space(i had serious trust issues and insecurity problems which i am currently improving. I nagged at him alot and caused fights because of petty things) And another reason was because of parents. - a few days before we broke up i told him i couldnt be with him. Because of something my mom said. We were crying so hard together. (he said he felt bad so he cried) - ever since the break up he talked to me twice. Once he kept telling me to move on. And the other was when he saw me at the cafe and he approached me before i left and yeah i mentioned it up there. It kind of pisses me off. How easily he is moving on in his life after hurting me so much. It's like he's trying to rub it in my face or something. I dont know what he is thinking. He keeps saying "if it's meant to happen It will" then today he just tweeted "you cant push away something that is bound to happen someday". It feels like he doesnt wanna waste his time with me or something. Or could it be parents. Haih. I dont know. I need serious help. Guys some advice would be very much appreciated because i feel so stupid for still being in love with a man that is able to hurt me and confuse me like that. Haih. I love him so much. And i dont know what is going on in his head. Please help me out and tell me what's going on.
Maverick1983 Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 Hi there. I got dumped by my ex about 2 months ago. For whatever the reason is, i dont know. But the final reason he gave was that he fell out of love. After the break up, it's so weird because one minute he's like tweeting all these stuff saying im worth it and indirectly tweeting at me. Then the next he's super cold like trying to hurt me on purpose. Like he changes a picture of him with another girl. I just can't figure it out if he actually really misses me and is waiting for a miracle or is he just playing me. Like i bumped into him 2 months after we broke up(which is just a few days ago). I pretended i never saw him and he quickly approached me before i walked away. Later that night he called me. And he tweeted "i miss you". I feel like he did miss me that night but then he regrets letting me know then he does something to hurt me indirectly. (like changing his whatsapp picture of him with another girl) I'm so confused and i know that he really isnt the type to play around. But then again, maybe i'm wrong. But ever since the break up, everything he did was just so contradicting. We never talked. But, its like. We tweeted indirectly. He wouldnt respond to any of my messages and stuff. His tweets and tumblr is like he is in love and etc etc. I asked him if he is. He said "no. I'm just doing it to act like he is normal or some ****." More things to know:- - we were together for a little under 2 years. - i never told any of my family we were together i had to lie when we wanted to go out. (he did tweet stuff like "why hide" after the break up) - other of his excuses was that he needed space(i had serious trust issues and insecurity problems which i am currently improving. I nagged at him alot and caused fights because of petty things) And another reason was because of parents. - a few days before we broke up i told him i couldnt be with him. Because of something my mom said. We were crying so hard together. (he said he felt bad so he cried) - ever since the break up he talked to me twice. Once he kept telling me to move on. And the other was when he saw me at the cafe and he approached me before i left and yeah i mentioned it up there. It kind of pisses me off. How easily he is moving on in his life after hurting me so much. It's like he's trying to rub it in my face or something. I dont know what he is thinking. He keeps saying "if it's meant to happen It will" then today he just tweeted "you cant push away something that is bound to happen someday". It feels like he doesnt wanna waste his time with me or something. Or could it be parents. Haih. I dont know. I need serious help. Guys some advice would be very much appreciated because i feel so stupid for still being in love with a man that is able to hurt me and confuse me like that. Haih. I love him so much. And i dont know what is going on in his head. Please help me out and tell me what's going on. He's hurting you to build up his own ego. He has control over your emotions and it is obviously giving him some satisfaction. The best thing you can do is for a start is remove him from your social media as you'll be getting a day to report on how much of an egotist he is. Social media really has become a curse as peoples lives are there on show for everyone to see. Do yourself a favour and try to ignore what's going on his life and you may wonder but won't be hurt by the results. Secondly don't feel stupid we've all been there we've all felt what you're feeling. It's hard to see how it will get better but it will without him as a distraction to you. Start looking after yourself and find someone that won't mess you around
Griesfootball Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 Start no contact right away and don't look at that social media it only keeps you guessing and it will hurt you if you see something you don't want to see other than that goodluck
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