Triguluous Posted February 16, 2005 Posted February 16, 2005 Well, it has been a long time sense I posted last. The girl I was seeing over the summer didn't last. She laid some heavy information on me really yearly on into what was our relationship and was also so very imature. I guess that is why I am usually more successful with older women. Anyways, now onto the current. I have been seeing this girl from my work, we don't work with each other just at the same place. Anyways, she is really nice and seems to be interested in me from her tone and that she calls and writes me emails everyday. (I could be wrong.) We haven't kissed yet or anything else more physical than holding hands, it is just that she asked me out to dinner etc. and I didn't feel compfortable kissing her yet for the reason I didn't know if I wanted anything more than friends. I am busy with my degree and some consulting on the side, she is finishing her graduate degree and will be done in Dec.? She is about 4 years older than me. I was thinking about these things. Also, she has two jobs and runs cross country meets on the weekends for cash prize. (just a little info on her). Now that I have explained a few points, time to bring you guys up to speed. It has been a month I believe and have gone out to dinner, movies, hanging out with her and her roomates etc. She is supposed to come over Weds. and go out to dinner. I am still not sure what I want, but I am sure I want her in my life and I can see a possibility of us being more than friends. Whenever I hear her voice on the phone, it makes me feel like happy and my day seems so much better that she called. I am so comfortable with her. No jealousy or etc. I know, that people will say I already answered my question own question about being with her. My real question is should I ask her what she is feeling, does she see something in us or .... what? My buddy told me not to just ask her straight out because that would be putting her on the spot, which I fully understand. Besides, I don't think it would come out the way I was thinking. Hehehe. I would like to move towards a relationship with her, but I don't know if that is something she is looking for right now, or if she has the room in her life right now for something like this. I wouldn't be hurt if she didn't, it would just make me feel better knowing what path to head down. Friends or B-G. I hope I gave clear enough information. Anything that is not understood I can try to make it clear. -Thanx
Devildog Posted February 16, 2005 Posted February 16, 2005 Take the plunge and kiss her on your date Wednesday. Her response to the kiss should give you the answer you are looking for. If she seems to be into it, and kisses you back with some enthusiasm, she is interested in more than just friends.
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