Noproblem Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 So, I am free now I don't care about that guy any more ..... It turned out he has a girlfriend and I saw them together and so I was cured of my attachment to him.. He is just another guy now..... Which leads me to the realization that my feeling was not real because I didn't become sad. I just moved on... I despise him though, today I saw him, I tried to be more natural but I couldn't help looking at him with despise; he doesn't intimidate me any more... He is nothing. He is just a guy who plays with other girls' feelings, while having a girlfriend They will break up because I believe she is way better than him. I hope he will be happy, but part of me think he doesn't deserve it that much because he is a player. He is a good guy who tries to be a player which is the same thing I guess. But if anything this life has taught me that it always treat players and bad people well.
anne1707 Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 If you despise him then he is not nothing to you and you have not got over him yet. However you are getting there. 3
Author Noproblem Posted June 21, 2014 Author Posted June 21, 2014 If you despise him then he is not nothing to you and you have not got over him yet. However you are getting there. I know what you are saying.. When I say I despise him, it's not that I hate him all the time. But I despise what he represents. I despise many girls or guys over what they represent or what they did to me.. I am not denying that I can't really get over him, but I don't carry the same feeling toward him like before. 1
thekid36 Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 So, I am free now I don't care about that guy any more ..... It turned out he has a girlfriend and I saw them together and so I was cured of my attachment to him.. He is just another guy now..... Which leads me to the realization that my feeling was not real because I didn't become sad. I just moved on... I despise him though, today I saw him, I tried to be more natural but I couldn't help looking at him with despise; he doesn't intimidate me any more... He is nothing. He is just a guy who plays with other girls' feelings, while having a girlfriend They will break up because I believe she is way better than him. I hope he will be happy, but part of me think he doesn't deserve it that much because he is a player. He is a good guy who tries to be a player which is the same thing I guess. But if anything this life has taught me that it always treat players and bad people well. I think that your reaction to this situation is an incredibly healthy one. If a guy is with someone else, there is no reason to think twice about him. No matter what kind of attention he may show someone else. No matter how amazing you may think he is. It is just a waste of your energy to give him anything as precious as your time. A good guy who tries to be a player is sort of an oxymoron. If he was truly a good one, he would not be trying to attract the attention of anyone else while in a relationship with this other woman. I would actually have more respect for someone who came out and did not pretend to be what he is not. You deserve a man who will give you his full attention. Not because he has to. But, because he wants to. I happen to think that Natalia Livingston is the most beautiful woman in the whole world. If she was to walk into a restaurant I was having dinner in, and I was completely into the woman I was with, then I would not even notice her coming in. That is perhaps the kind of thing you need to find. Minus Natalia Livingston, of course. 1
Author Noproblem Posted June 22, 2014 Author Posted June 22, 2014 I think that your reaction to this situation is an incredibly healthy one. If a guy is with someone else, there is no reason to think twice about him. No matter what kind of attention he may show someone else. No matter how amazing you may think he is. It is just a waste of your energy to give him anything as precious as your time. A good guy who tries to be a player is sort of an oxymoron. If he was truly a good one, he would not be trying to attract the attention of anyone else while in a relationship with this other woman. I would actually have more respect for someone who came out and did not pretend to be what he is not. You deserve a man who will give you his full attention. Not because he has to. But, because he wants to. I happen to think that Natalia Livingston is the most beautiful woman in the whole world. If she was to walk into a restaurant I was having dinner in, and I was completely into the woman I was with, then I would not even notice her coming in. That is perhaps the kind of thing you need to find. Minus Natalia Livingston, of course. Thank you so much for this. I guess you are right about many things... If I think about it and remember some things that happened in the past, I come to believe he is not that good either. But yes, let's by gone be by gone.. It's not my business if he is good or not ...
thekid36 Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 Thank you so much for this. I guess you are right about many things... If I think about it and remember some things that happened in the past, I come to believe he is not that good either. But yes, let's by gone be by gone.. It's not my business if he is good or not ... You are more than welcome. I am not sure if I am right or not. Just my two cents is all and my view from a male perspective. His business and yours do not seem to match. Bigger and better things await you. 1
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