mattsky Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Hey all. Some of you may have read my post about my recent break up. I've been reading alot of really helpful posts, mostly a thread I read from barky. Lastnight me and her had a bust up. Again. She told me she didn't love me and she had no feelings for me. Obviously I was angry, 3 years down the pan and my idea of the perfect family out the window. I put across my points and let her know how I feel. And I asked her to do the same. We now know where we both stand. She said there's a 50/50 chance of us getting back together if I give her space. The way I see it, we aren't getting back together. After reading barkys thread I realised everything he said was true.... Hit the nail on the head and I'm going to follow his advice. Move on, don't reply to her and wait for her to realise she's made a massive mistake because, although I didn't always treat her well, I always loved her and would do anything for her, we were both so good together when things were right and we really connected emotionally. After a while she will realise. By the time she realises I'm Hoping I've kept myself busy enough to have forgotten. All about her, and if not I'm hoping I'm Close to finally getting over her. I'm not going to wait around anymore, llife is too short to sit at home moping, sad, depressed, crying and what not. So the plan. Gym, friends, work, family and hopefully you guys! I don't want to bore you with all my depressing details (that's what my other thread was for) but I'd like To get to know some of you that have helped me out through possibly the most difficult time in my life to date! In short, say hey to me if you fancy someone new to talk to, about anything. I need to keep myself busy and hopefully some of you will help me thankyou all again for the help and advice! Ttruly do appreciate it. Matt
Duude Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Right on Matt. Sounds like you have a good plan mate. NC will be tough over the coming weeks. Block her from everything if you haven't already. It helps.
Author mattsky Posted June 21, 2014 Author Posted June 21, 2014 I'd rather not think about it all together listing the things I don' miss will remind me of the things I do miss Just need to not think about her which is difficult with a baby haha. She knows how I feel. What will be will be. Who knows, come a month's time she might miss me. But then the ball is in my court. Will re evaluate the situation should the time come, see where I am in life and how things are with her and her attitude, see how happy I am. See if I'm better off with or without her. Only time will tell!
gj13 Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 You'll do just fine, realizing this is the first step. Im right where you are so hang in there and if you need anyone to talk to or vent, hit me up ive found that this has helped me (talking to people in the same situation) b
Author mattsky Posted June 22, 2014 Author Posted June 22, 2014 So much haorder than I thought it would be haha only the second day -.- she was out lastnight in town and I couldn't stop thinking about her and wondering wether she would get with another guy. She messaged me this morning asking if I knew where her work book was as we lived together. I just said no and asked if I could see the daughter and take her to the park so I'd be out of her way. Such a long way to go... And Im sure I'll be messaging yo u soon haha!! Thought I was stronger than I actually am. Off to play golf in an hour. Should keep me busy for a bit!!
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