Have girls ever changed their feelings for a guy after he has asked her out etc?

[Guitarisgood]

A chance encounter with her and I got her number and after a few exchanges, I asked her out.

 

She was extremely flattered but said she was not interested. Thing is, she has changed around me. The flirting between us has increased since, we message each other throughout the day and while I have not asked her out again, we are meeting up more often at uni if not, just to study etc.

[J21]

Feelings change all the time. Maybe she wasn't interested at first, but as she got to know you more she started being more interested.

 

Or it could be she is using you as an self-esteem/ego boost.

 

See how it pans out the next few days or weeks.

[d0nnivain]

maybe. You could have caught her off guard but now that she has gotten to know you she has had time to think about it.

 

 

However, unless she does something overt, I wouldn't read anything into her behavior.

[phineas]

Most healthy women I know will avoid contact with men who are interested in them romantically when they do not have any interest in them.

 

They certainly don't flirt with them.

 

My experience is women who act this way and they do it because they love the attention.

They consider you harmless and will manipulate you into being one of her orbiters.

Most men would try to sleep with a woman who flirted with them like that then they would bounce if they didn't get anywhere.

 

 

I suppose she could of changed her mind however a woman so bold and forward with flirting will also make it clear she is interested and make it very easy for you to kiss her.

 

So I say kiss her or ask her on a date then be done with her if she rejects you again.

 

I used to end up in situations like this when I was overweight and just bad with women.

After I got in shape and got some experience I can say very few women try to lead me on because they can tell if they flirt with me in an overt way I will act on it.

[Assasda]

Maybe you asked her out in a needy insecure way.

 

Something like "Let me take you out sometime"

or someting like "Can I take you out on a date sometime"

Both insecure ways of asking a woman out.

[spiderowl]

Having the strength to ask a woman out is quite impressive in itself. It does make one rethink a guy if he has the guts to do that. She might still not be interested but your action may have made her think a bit. I think if you carry on being fun and a bit daring near her but do not attempt to push her into a date, you will see whether she's really interested. Sometimes a guy becomes more appealing if he's not so clingy and desperate but shows a bit of interest every so often.