OK_computer Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 This hurts so much. We're all in the same class. She comes up to him or he goes to her..They giggle touch hug whatever. Each time when they're done she makes a point to look at me. Don't know if its to piss me off or to see my reaction. Obviously ill look hurt but I HIDE it and try to walk away from the scene. She's beaten me to the curb then blocked me so I defriended her and I've been nc for 3 months. It hurts soo much to see her and it's like 100-0 her winning. I know revenge is wrong and all but I don't have a clue how to be happy seeing this everyday. She doesn't give a damm about me and he's being a douche. I'll never win. Only solace Is the 2hrs gym a day to lose the weight I gained since the bu. I'll never win will I?
Author OK_computer Posted June 21, 2014 Author Posted June 21, 2014 Im sorry it got posted twice because of phone net connection problems can a mod or administrator delete one of them?? Sorry again
redbaron005 Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Have you talked to the professor? I bet if you explained the situation he would excuse a few absences or help you switch to a different section. Shoot him an email or show up to office hours. Also, "before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves." Revenge is a choice, and usually a bad one.
d0nnivain Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Sit somewhere in class so they are out of your line of sight. Get there right before class starts & run out the door. Do whatever you have to in order to get through the class.
lauri Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Your ex is 100% trying to get a reaction out of you. I'm glad you aren't showing her that it bothers you because this is bother her more. She cant stand that you defriended and blocked her so she wants to prove she can still have control over you. Also, this "best friend" is no best friend in my opinion. How can he do that to you? A few questions - are you in highschool still? How old are both of you?
Author OK_computer Posted June 21, 2014 Author Posted June 21, 2014 Your ex is 100% trying to get a reaction out of you. I'm glad you aren't showing her that it bothers you because this is bother her more. She cant stand that you defriended and blocked her so she wants to prove she can still have control over you. Also, this "best friend" is no best friend in my opinion. How can he do that to you? A few questions - are you in highschool still? How old are both of you? No im a medical student in my last year lol. Im 26 and so is she. We've been in an oaoa relationship for 3.5 yrs with 15 breakups. So deep down it's not the end for her because it never was the end. She was staring at me all day today cuz I was talking to 2 other girls. The only reasom I won't go back this time is because she will never change. But that doesn't mean it kills me inside.
d0nnivain Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 Go find a friend who is doing their psych residency & pour your heart out to them or flirt with a nurse.
Yamaha Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 Up to you. She seems petty and immature. To look at you while she is with him is immature. You should feel good that he has her and not you! You don't have to put up with that petty behavior. I would smile and speak to both of them, when you see them, and then go about your business. Remember, being un-emotional when you see her is the goal. Fake it until you no longer care.
FitnessRN Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 she's a wacko...sit in the front and get your grades. Who cares about a girl when you are fighting for that A.
FitnessRN Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 This hurts so much. We're all in the same class. She comes up to him or he goes to her..They giggle touch hug whatever. Each time when they're done she makes a point to look at me. Don't know if its to piss me off or to see my reaction. Obviously ill look hurt but I HIDE it and try to walk away from the scene. She's beaten me to the curb then blocked me so I defriended her and I've been nc for 3 months. It hurts soo much to see her and it's like 100-0 her winning. I know revenge is wrong and all but I don't have a clue how to be happy seeing this everyday. She doesn't give a damm about me and he's being a douche. I'll never win. Only solace Is the 2hrs gym a day to lose the weight I gained since the bu. I'll never win will I? You can always upgrade. Tell you friend to hit and quit her ha ha...that would be funny.
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