synthy Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Hello guys, Ive been with my gf for 5 years and we have a house together and a dog. The other day she told me she needed to talk and she told ne the relationship had gone south and she didnt love me anymore She also told me there was someone else. A guy from a foreign country that she says she loves. We had an argument and there were tears and such but after that there were a couple of days where we cuddled and talked as we used to and had sex. I found out one day when she left her facebook on that she loved this guy and was planning a life together. I text her and told her I was packing her stuff and wanted her to leave. In the end she had no where to go and had to stay. I love her but cannot trust her and now she just says she doesnt love me and it even feels like she hates me. She is constantly on her pc and phone talking to all her online friends, one of which is her lover. What the hell do I do guys? I tried buying her flowers and trying to win her back but that didnt work. the last couple of days Ive been out all day with friends and ignored her and slept in a different bed. How do I play this now? do I just try to sort out the house situation and get out? Or do I stay and play the whole I dont care im just living my life card? at the moment I dont want to be here its too painful to have her here knowing she doesnt love me but i have no where to go 5 years is such a long time and so many good times to lose please help I feel like I need antidepressents or to sleep all the time, I dont want to kill myself but there is so much pain
TylerDurdenn Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Move out and cut all ties ASAP Let her have her foreign lover, she will only betray him as well. 1
edgygirl Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Agree with Tyler. I know it stings a lot but she doesn't deserve your love. You are probably confused, hurt, overwhelmed, disappointed, with low self esteem and you need some space to process the whole thing. If you can, move out. It doesn't make sense to sleep in the same bed when she emotionally betrayed you planning her life with someone else while you were still together. I don't care how awesome this woman is. 2
Author synthy Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 Thanks guys. trying to get out asap but she csnt leave till she gets a place and every day we fight or some crazy **** happens
Mistercash Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Yeah bro...its time for you to get so far away from this girl. Let that foreign douche have her. In time, he'll be the one crying after he catches her getting her mouth stuffed by another man. 1
DarkKnight1 Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Kick Her Out. Forget How She Feels Its Clear She Doesn't Care About Yours.. Why Waste Any More Time With Her? 1
TylerDurdenn Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Thanks guys. trying to get out asap but she csnt leave till she gets a place and every day we fight or some crazy **** happens Who owns the places? Which names are on the tenancy agreement? Just kick her out, she hasn't shown you any respect so return the favour! Good luck! It's going to get hard so just keep your head.. 1
Author synthy Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 We both own it, however she only put down 3k for the deposit so I need to get that back to her before she can go . trying to take on new mortgage from bank, but it takes time and I cant be there when she keeps on being all lovey dovey with this damn guy when im not in the room
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