mysteriouschic Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Does he like me? I know him about 2-3 months. I'm 21 he's 25 When I was talking to to him as he was explaining something workout we were standing side by side close, my arm brushed against his accidentally I could feel the hairs on his arm he didn't move his arm away just left it there continued talking I moved mine away slowly after a couple of seconds. He afterwards moved in closer moving his arm nearer almost touching just close that you know it's there. We always stand extremely close to each other like in a intimate closeness. Ever since I touched his arm he seems more comfortable , talkative around me. The next time I saw him we ended up talking about our weekend ended up talking long about movies.He's a confident guy different with everyone else talkative but quieter with me. During sets he asked me about if I was a student, what age I was, where I was from. He seemed to want to know all about me took him 3months to ask this.. We spoke about world cup. He was joking with me a lot telling me stuff. He's my trainer he's done other flirty touching like he got me to touch off his hand. He stood much closer to me. He seems to be getting more comfortable talking to me more or joking with me , wanting to know more about me. Is he interested? Did me touching his arm last week give him a signal that I liked him making him more secure ? Is him asking about my age a sign of interest ?Why it it take 3months for him to talk more to me?
PegNosePete Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Why don't you ask him out? Not sure dating your PT is a good idea though.
Author mysteriouschic Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 Does he seem interested? or attracted? I'd just keep talking to him see how we are.
Author mysteriouschic Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 Should I just keep getting to know him since he seems to be going slow? He's only gotten comfortable & confident around me now. Is he interested?
d0nnivain Posted June 21, 2014 Posted June 21, 2014 From what you have written I have no idea. He seems friendly enough. No every man has the courage or hutzpah to ask a woman out the 1st time he lays eyes on her. He may be biding his time, getting to know you better & making sure you are comfortable around him. Flirt with him. Make it clear to him that if he asked you out, the answer would be yes. If you prefer more direct, you suggest getting together.
Author mysteriouschic Posted June 21, 2014 Author Posted June 21, 2014 He just seems different with me compared to everyone else. It's like we connected last week after not really saying much, he seemed to have warmed up around me being his confident self. I don't if I sent off mixed signals too since I don't show my emotions the touch might have given him a sign that I liked him. How would I make it clear that I'd want him to ask me out? like if he asks me if I'm doing anything for the weekend? or I ask him if he's doing anything? Or just keep talking acting interested flirting with body language letting him know I like him .
Assasda Posted June 22, 2014 Posted June 22, 2014 Ask him if he hangs out anywhere in particular, or ask him if he knows any good places to hang out. THen say, maybe "you and I can visit" it sometime. Something like that If youre bold, you can just ask him straight out. "Would you like to go with me to ____"
Author mysteriouschic Posted June 22, 2014 Author Posted June 22, 2014 It's actually been 3-4months that it's taken him to be talkative or confident around me. Once we got talking he asked me so many questions , also seemed more aggressive or direct in his body language trying to stand as close has he can when he was facing me leaning right about 2 or 3 feet apart. I don't know if I'd be good at asking him out. Could I just keep acting more interested? not sending mixed signals occasionally touch his arm again to show I like him? since he's only warming up to me now maybe he's taking it slow?
Author mysteriouschic Posted July 10, 2014 Author Posted July 10, 2014 He's gotten way more confident around me lately an is starting to flirt or joke more. In between sets he saw girl he knew their friends near just in front he quickly showed her something he did to his back his phone he had a picture. The girl said hi to me and i said hi back. He jokingly said "She hates me" smiling I just said "aw I don't hate him". After he came back over to me and was showing me the picture saying how it really hurts just complaining saying how sore his back is telling me all about it . After he was joking more in between sets for that exercise we had a ball and he'd play without trying out tricks and he'd joke say "I really need to stop playing with the ball" and would continue to do tricks. We were joking a lot flirting with each other. Is he flirting does he like me? was he wanting me to say "Oh I really like you?" in response to "she hates me? Also I'm friends with this guy on facebook call him James. He randomly out of the blue asked me "Have you ever trained with James?" . There's no way he'd have known I know James if he hadn't looked at my facebook . He happens to be a mutual friend on facebook of ours when on each others pages. Although me and him aren't actually friends. It's almost like he was wondering how I knew him?or wondering why I was friends with James on facebook but not him?
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