Margo_smith Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Hi All, A bit confused here. There is a guy who runs in the same circle as me and I see him out often (clubs, concerts, etc.)& He always acts as if he doesn't see me and won't speak unless I speak to him first. Literally he will walk right by me and pretend I don't exist. In spite of this, he has made it a point to follow and add me on multiple social media outlets yet he never comments on anything... Previously, he hooked up with one of my friends and he seemed to be really smitten-- he even stayed a few nights at the house we shared together! I had a crush on him when we first met, I'm wondering if my friend told him and now he feels weird around me? Can any Men help me out on this one? Why would a guy well into his 30s behave this way?
Frank2thepoint Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 He sounds immature. Why do you have a crush on a guy that had sex with your friend? 1
Author Margo_smith Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 I've always thought he was good looking... I told my "friend" this about two years ago and after that they started sleeping together.(We are no longer friends due to this and other reasons). She had already slept with his roommate and best friend, so I guess she had to move onto the next guy who paid her some attention. I still think he is an attractive guy, but there's no way I will ever pursue him romantically considering he's been with my former friend. I'm just trying to figure out why he acts so strange around me.
Frank2thepoint Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 I've always thought he was good looking I see why you are still thinking about him. Even though you wouldn't ever be romantically involved with him, you still continue to keep yourself attracted to him. You are secretly holding out hope that he'll give you a wink, and that will melt you. I'm just trying to figure out why he acts so strange around me. You could ask him directly, and he may answer honestly. Knowing how he is, if you weren't attracted to him, I'm sure you wouldn't care why he is ignoring you.
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