question4me Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 I told her yesterday that I was developing feelings and that i liked her and that we shouldn't see each other for a little bit so I can shake it off… but she got upset and kept texting me and asking me why i didn't want to like her like that… today she tells me if I would be mad if she went on a date.. I said nawwwwwwww… I mean its not like I told you i LIKED YOU or anything… she sent me pics of her date… like three of them while telling me how cute and funny they are... I said… "wow they look good" and then told her I was tired and that I was going to bed and that I would hit her up tomorrow morning… I won't talk to her anymore... I mean I get it.. we are friends with benefits… but she didn't have to do that… i don't understand why she did that… so rude… good thing I wasn't in love… Idk I needed to vent.
Smarty Pants Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 You probably shouldn't have told her you have feelings. It was good to be honest, but it seems like she is sending you these pictures to make you jealous because she knows it gets to you. Let the game playing begin.
Author question4me Posted June 20, 2014 Author Posted June 20, 2014 yea yesterday she said "just saying what we are and what we aren't" and then sent the pics... idk I don't play games. I'm not contacting her… Im sure tomorrow she will turn it on me somehow..
Strength in Healing Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 Friends with benefits NEVER, EVER, EVER, on Earth, EVER, ever ever ever EVER EVERRRRRR will work. It just won't work. The end 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 It works just fine if you stick to the plan!!!
FitnessRN Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 I don't believe in friends with benefits nor one night stands. What do us guys have to prove? 2
Griesfootball Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 With fwb there is always one party that ends up wanting more and it usually turns out worse somebody ends up getting hurt 2
central Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 With fwb there is always one party that ends up wanting more and it usually turns out worse somebody ends up getting hurt FALSE. It can and does happen of course, but far from always. I've never had that occur with any of my FWB, and with all of them we've remained good friends even when we stopped benefits (usually because we found someone for a relationship).
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