Griesfootball Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 My ex texted me first today. She is the one who broke up with me in April. It was generic texting until I said that I need to get my stuff back from you. I could never get myself to get to that point. I'm 19 she is 18. She has a key to my house and a couple clothing items. But what got me is that she seemed surprised that I asked. She said oh alright I would have sent it earlier if I knew you wanted it back. And I said well I definitely need the key back. She said wow lol clearly I cant be trusted. I said well do you want it forever, and she said I don't need it I just didn't think you would ask. I said your my ex and your not coming back. She said idc you can have it. I said we will do it however and she said I'll mail it. I said I know you don't want to be bothered by me that's why I asked for my stuff she said she isn't bothered by me. I asked what did she actually want from me. She said she wants to see me be happy and that she is sorry for how everything had happened. I still love her but this is a step needed to take for me to move on or at least try to. I can't imagine the pain she will feel when she packs it up and I started crying when thinking about when I receive it and open it. So am I handling it right and also what are your past experiences with exchanges? It has been a tough day for me
CaliBabe Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 This is being handled correctly. Have it mailed. Do not see her face to face. Go back NC. I am sorry you are down but it will get easier with more time. 1
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