Fosters Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 (edited) My ex Girlfriend got me arrested and cautioned for harrassment in fear of Violence. (I have never once been violent or threaterning to her) Does this mean I can never speak to her again? I understand that constant messaging is a sort of harrassment, but I was just saying the usual I'm sorry and I can change blah blah blah. Now I understand that actions speak louder than words it seems. Her friend who turned on me has inboxed me on FB "sympathising" with me. pretty much messing my head up again, I knew it was a fake profile because I got it confirmed from one of our other friends. I just don't even know what to do anymore. Because I cannot hate her for the arrest, she has just really upset me through it and everyone has said she will regret it, but I just can't believe anyone. I do still love her and I have accepted that I made miustakes, now I am getting those problems sorted out. Am I a fool that if she ever came back I would welcome her with open arms? I just don't want to get fully over her because I do love her.. Edited June 19, 2014 by Fosters
Zahara Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Yes, that means you don't speak to her again. She got you arrested. Wake up. It seems like you're obsessed.
Smarty Pants Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 If she came back in two years, would you want to continue to torture yourself for that long with these questions? Moving on is the only option. She had you arrested! I can't imagine you were just sitting on your couch and the police came in to arrest you. Please stop talking to her before you end up in jail.
Chi townD Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 DUDE!!!! AWAKE UP!!!!! THIS BITCH GOT YOU ARRESTED!!!! That HAS to be a awake up call for you! You went to jail! OBVIOUSLY she doesn't feel the same way for you if she doesn't give a damn about your freedom! Now you have to get a lawyer and go to court.....blah...blah....blah.... AND now you have a record that going to follow you everywhere! Dude, DO NOT contact her again! Block her on your Facebook and all mutual friends and all of her friends. Matter of fact, just delete your account. Oh, and screw that "friend" that turned on you and is now trying to sympathize with you. Chances are it was his or her idea to have her call the cops on you. They probably thought that they would give you a warning and never imagined that they would arrest you. Now, they're probably feeling guilty about it. Move on dude. No girl is worth your freedom. Heal from this and go strictly NC on her.
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