Hugo112211 Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 Me and this girl planned to grab some drinks. She has summer school but I don't so it's a pretty rocky schedule. However, she asked how we're going to meet. I told her that I'll come by the school and when it ends to meet me at the front of the school so we can go together to the place. I asked her if this was ok. Instead of getting a yes or no, she just asks if we can go somewhere near the school. Does she seem shy because she is too nervous just to walk to a place with me?
Author Hugo112211 Posted June 19, 2014 Author Posted June 19, 2014 Also, we already hung out twice bit it was in a group setting
Assasda Posted June 19, 2014 Posted June 19, 2014 I dont think she truly trusts you yet. She doesnt feel totally safe YET. So she doesnt want to go far. Dont let any of this faze you. When you see her, Tell her that you want to take her where you intended to take her in the first place. If she doesnt give you a good reason why you shouldnt. or if she puts up a big fuss about it, you might want to hang out close to the school 1
Author Hugo112211 Posted June 19, 2014 Author Posted June 19, 2014 I dont think she truly trusts you yet. She doesnt feel totally safe YET. So she doesnt want to go far. Dont let any of this faze you. When you see her, Tell her that you want to take her where you intended to take her in the first place. If she doesnt give you a good reason why you shouldnt. or if she puts up a big fuss about it, you might want to hang out close to the school Hey thanks for your reply. I forgot to add that she is EXTREMELY lazy and hates to walk to far places. The original destination is pretty far where we need to take buses and walk for approximately 40 min in total. Does this forgotten info change anything? Also I was thinking maybe she doesn't want to walk that far distance with me because she is shy or because the destination really is too far
Assasda Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 hahahaha, Its almost like youre trolling now. Well if she's lazy that answers your question. I still stand by my first post though. Dont let it faze you
d0nnivain Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 She probably isn't too sure about you & is therefore reluctant to invest 2+ hours in you (40 minutes each way + time together). She wants to go someplace closer so she can bail easily if you are not all that. Abide by her location wishes then be the guy she wants to spend tons of time with
DArtagnan2 Posted June 20, 2014 Posted June 20, 2014 (edited) to have to take public transportation and walk 40 minutes is a bit of a distance for someone who hates to walk in general. I wouldn't call her lazy, I know a lot of people that would rather get something close to where they meet up because it is convenient and doesn't take much time to get to. Plus she is close to school which is maybe close to where she stays? I wouldn't worry about the trust although its a good point IF you two haven't really known each other for long or its a first meet kind of thing. If not, then I would say she wants to go somewhere close to where you two meet because it is convenient. I guess my questions is, why is there a question about it? Why not just say "ok, no problem, know of a place?" why the inquiries about something so simple? I mean, you are meeting her after she has been at school all day/night. If this was a Saturday date night, then maybe I would wonder why she wouldn't want to go somewhere thats suggested, but at the same time, what's the difference as long as you two go out? Edited June 20, 2014 by DArtagnan2
Author Hugo112211 Posted June 22, 2014 Author Posted June 22, 2014 to have to take public transportation and walk 40 minutes is a bit of a distance for someone who hates to walk in general. I wouldn't call her lazy, I know a lot of people that would rather get something close to where they meet up because it is convenient and doesn't take much time to get to. Plus she is close to school which is maybe close to where she stays? I wouldn't worry about the trust although its a good point IF you two haven't really known each other for long or its a first meet kind of thing. If not, then I would say she wants to go somewhere close to where you two meet because it is convenient. I guess my questions is, why is there a question about it? Why not just say "ok, no problem, know of a place?" why the inquiries about something so simple? I mean, you are meeting her after she has been at school all day/night. If this was a Saturday date night, then maybe I would wonder why she wouldn't want to go somewhere thats suggested, but at the same time, what's the difference as long as you two go out? Hey man thanks for replying. I see your insight. Firstly, this is going to be our third time hanging out. The other two were in a group setting where she was talking to me and flirting with me the most and I agree about the convenience. Also, this will not be a Saturday night date but it will be taking place after her school ends which is at 1:30 p.m. She has school from 8:00 am to 1:30 p.m.
Author Hugo112211 Posted June 22, 2014 Author Posted June 22, 2014 hahahaha, Its almost like youre trolling now. Well if she's lazy that answers your question. I still stand by my first post though. Dont let it faze you Aha I am certainly not a troll. I just unintentionally withheld some information on accident.
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