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[milane]

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I have been friends with a guy for two years and we both liked each other from the beginning but circumstances did not allow us to be together.

 

After two years we finally start dating. A couple months after we start dating the guy gets a job interview out of state. After the inteview he seemed a bit distant and didn't want to hang out as much. We had a talk and he told me he didn't want to date me anymore and that we should hang out as just friends. He told me he cares about me a lots and if he does take this job he doesn't want to end up hurting me when he leaves. He claims it feels good to be with me and in his heart it seems right but at the same time it feels wrong to him. He also said because he is emotionally investing himself in looking to fix his professional life he's going to have to push out other things, like a relationship, out of his life.

 

However, I also noticed he is spending a lot of time getting to know another girl.

I do not know if they are dating and I'm not sure if it's even in my place to ask him about it.

 

So now I am wondering if what he said was just all BS. And plus why is it that after two years of trying to date me he all of a sudden lets me go? I don't know how guys work. What do you think?

 

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[Hund1976]

He could be losing interest in you and is using the other stuff as an excuse. Its a lot easier to say "well I really like you, but I'm so busy at my job I can't have time for a relationship" then to say "well sorry I'm not into you anymore, I met this other girl that turns me on"

 

You can either sit around and wait for him to decide what he's doing or move on.

[rowi1116]

well, you deserve someone who will be dedicated to you, and that means a guy who includes you in his future. dont sit around waiting for him. enjoy life, friends and family. you never know who you will meet. let he see that you will not hang around waiting for him.