renill83 Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 My boyfriend told me yesterday that he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend but it's nothing sexual or he's not trying to get back with her and i find it really hard to believe. My boyfriend and i went to grade school together but at that time i hated him. After 13 years we met again through his cousin who happens to be one of my bestfriend and also my co-worker. we've been togethet for 4mths now and itz good except for the distance since he's in the army and he's stationed in another state but we still see each other every month. I love my boyfriend and we are about to have a baby but now i'm doubting if he loves me or not he tells me he loves me but since he told me he still has feelings for his ex i'm regretting everything especially the baby part. I don't want to loose him but i'm confused because he knows his ex has a boyfriend but she doesn't know he has a g/f and his big excuse she don't need to know about my business. I don't know if i should break up with him or give him another chance. Please give me some advice and i'm 22 ans he's 24.
greenlove Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 Wow, I don’t think I could put up with my boyfriend having feeling for his ex. Maybe you just feel stressed out with the baby and it just appears that way to you. I personally don’t think you or him should have any contact with the ex if there’s no need for it, but him trying to keep it a secret from his ex is a different story. Try to find out for yourself if his feeling for you are certain and take care of yourself and the baby. Put your needs first and be secure with your relationship.
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