LuvConquersAll Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 My ex and I broke up a few months ago, but decided to stay friends. After the break up, I sometimes finds my ex doing things that would register as still having feelings for me. Such as: getting really happy when I'm near, constantly talking to me, trying to impress me somehow, annoying me then smiling when it works, and giving me the loving smile he always gave me when we were together, he still texts me a bunch about things nobody else but us can relate to. Should this mean anything (romantically) to me? Or is he just being real friendly?
Author LuvConquersAll Posted June 18, 2014 Author Posted June 18, 2014 My ex (let's call him Jack) and I broke up but decided we still wanted to stay friends. We talked a bunch after the break up until his phone broke one day. He messaged me and a few other friends on Facebook asking for our #'s because the phone company couldn't transfer his contacts. I messaged him my number after reading his message. He never texted me. Since I didn't know if he changed his # when he got his new phone, I didn't text him either. I instead messaged him on Facebook. He saw the messages, but never responded to any of them. We haven't talked in almost a week. A few days ago my friend and I were talking about him. I found out he hadn't changed his # and she'd told me she'd texted him earlier saying "Hey Jack!" and the first thing he texted back to her was asking "Is this Sara (me)?" We'd had a good laugh about it before she said she had to go to bed, and we bid "goodnight" to each other. Should this mean anything to me? Did he miss talking to me?
todreaminblue Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 Unless he says i made mistake i want you back anything he does is not worth worrying about..bcause it is merely a tactic to keep you in limbo and confused about his true intentions....and its working...........deb 1
Assasda Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 Naa he doesnt miss you. He's trying to stay away from you for a while. Shouldnt mean anything to you
ExpatInItaly Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 I don't think you should read into it. He didn't respond to your FB messages, either. If he really wanted to communicate with you, he knows how.
Assasda Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 I'm thinking he's the one that broke it off. Yeah, he want to keep you at an arms length, but get with other girls/ Youre the one that cares for him. The topic should be: "I love me ex"
umirano Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 To me it looks like he wanted to play you a little. And he got you to text him = ego stroke. Move on, hardly worth your time
umirano Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 No he isn't just being friendly. l thought he never replies to your texts (as per your other thread?).
Sulayman Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 i think he does not, bcz if he really missed u, he'd do anything to talk to you or respond to your messages you spent to him.. u just turn around and look for a new way!
Author LuvConquersAll Posted June 18, 2014 Author Posted June 18, 2014 No he isn't just being friendly. l thought he never replies to your texts (as per your other thread?). The events of this thread took place a month or two ago when we still saw each other daily at school. Now that we're out for summer, we don't see each other as much. We just use the phone to talk & text.
d0nnivain Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 I have no idea what they mean. He may want you back. If you don't want to get back with him & all of the stuff that broke up up isn't fixed leave him be. You can't be friends with an EX especially immediately off a fresh break up.
Author LuvConquersAll Posted June 18, 2014 Author Posted June 18, 2014 To me it looks like he wanted to play you a little. And he got you to text him = ego stroke. Move on, hardly worth your time Actually, I didn't text him. I haven't talked to him in a week. It was my friend who texted him, and she didn't even know we'd stopped talking.
William Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 Moderation did some consolidation of apparently similar threads, noting a few duplicates in the member's account. Please continue the discussion here. Thanks!
redbaron005 Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 Men don't go backwards in a relationship very easily. I'm sure he still cares about you in some way, but not sure what exactly it means. Maybe you should ask him? Meh, sometimes the only way forward in a relationship is to take a step backwards first. But yes, ask him directly, as a guy I really appreciate direct questions.
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