SpotyLove Posted June 17, 2014 Posted June 17, 2014 Based on research and advice from others, I usually give a woman 3 dates before deciding if I want to pursue things further. This assumes I find them physically attractive and no glaring red flags occur. I have been on four dates with a woman recently, the first and third date left left me giddy while the second and fourth were so-so to mildly bad. Has this happened to you ever where your date seems great half the time and mediocre the other half? Is it best to pull the plug or give it a few more chances?
todreaminblue Posted June 17, 2014 Posted June 17, 2014 not all dates are going to be mind blowing i happen to like quiet dates where they are reflective and just spend time in each others company, i also get a feel for a person more when they don't speak ..body language that si relaxed to just sit ...is actually really good.....what is more important to me when i am dating i guess i show comfortable the date is and how comfortable i am to let things go and just spend time together, no one should feel like they have to perform and be on point 24/7 i have found this way , most of my dates are a blast if they start relaxed, anything is possible.....and i dont mean sex......deb
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