tattoomytoe Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 so i got nothing for valentines. i went and bought things, and made my bf lasagna, brought him a rose. i spent money i did not have on him and i get jack, i am pissed.
RoxStar Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 That stinks! What gives? No money or no thought? Sorry Tattoo!
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Did you make it known that you were upset or hurt? What was his reaction?
tiki Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 DUMP HIM. That's just not cool. Llama got more sh*t than that from her EX.
savethedrama4allama Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by tiki DUMP HIM. That's just not cool. Llama got more sh*t than that from her EX. Hey, I have a melted pumpkin pie that sat on my front porch all night if you want it. I'm sorry, toes. What a turd.
Author tattoomytoe Posted February 15, 2005 Author Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by RoxStar That stinks! What gives? No money or no thought? Sorry Tattoo! he did give me $33, which just covered the costs of the stuff i bought, which really sucks, cause i wanted some change to buy smokes and gas. he thanked me and all, and said it was really good, and was appriciative, but woop-dee-doo! a card, home-made or store bought, would have been thoughful. then i was mad, so i barely ate any of it. oh.. he bought wine, and i told him i stopped drinking for lent, which i thought he would be happy about cause when i do drink he is always like ,"you are having another?". But No. he said you should quit smoking cig. do something to benefit you. Drinking can be good for you. then he just thinks religion is a crock. and was like oh so you will do this for Jesus..... and i was like no, Lent is about personal sacrifice and discipline. He pisses me off sooo much!
MaiGrl Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by mom-wife-cheater Did you make it known that you were upset or hurt? What was his reaction? Same thing happened to me. I spent money I do not have...Spent hours making a card and love letter for him. I got absolutely nothing from him. I would have been happy with just a little note saying how much he loves me or whatever. His excuse was that he just didn't have time. I made it known that I was upset and hurt. His reaction was... He said he would make it up to me. I said back, that him doing something to me up for V-day on another day would not be the same or mean anything to me. After this was silence. 10 minutes later, I look over at him and he is asleep so I quietly grabbed my stuff and left. I have not heard from him since. I don’t know what to do or say to him… Edited to add, we have been together 3 and ½ years.
RoxStar Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Well it sounds like you deserve better! Why did he reimburse you for what you bought him? How long have you been with this guy?
tiki Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Geeze, what's up with all these out-of-touch men?
Sckott Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 This is terrible. Valentine's Day is, as others have suggested, somewhat of a marketing trick. However, my feeling has always been if you love someone you show your respect and do something thoughtful enough to make someone smile. You don't need to go hog wild and do the dozen roses and diamonds, but knowing the little things in life are what makes love grow. Books, music, cook for her, go out on a daty-date? If you get nothing and you're in a real relationship, time to ask the whys. Sorry. No excuse for not trying.
Author tattoomytoe Posted February 15, 2005 Author Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky Did you at least get laid? of course i got laid! it was even pretty good, but i get that anytime i want....
tiki Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Of course she got laid...that didn't cost him anything.
Pocky Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Of course she got laid...that didn't cost him anything.
Author tattoomytoe Posted February 15, 2005 Author Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by RoxStar Well it sounds like you deserve better! Why did he reimburse you for what you bought him? How long have you been with this guy? he reimbursed me cause he owes me some money, and i said i would cook for him if he gave me some money, so i could buy the ingredients, since i had like $1 in my bank account. now thanks to the $33 contribution, i spent $30, i got to put in $4 worth of gas, so i could get home. Alas, i will be bumming smokes in a few hours, until thursday.
Pocky Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Maybe you need a new job and a new boyfriend. Weren't you a few months ago determining whether you should drop his butt because he had an intimate connection with a woman that worked at his bar? You don't even sound like you like the guy anymore.
Author tattoomytoe Posted February 15, 2005 Author Posted February 15, 2005 i know Pocky! actually we had a fight last week and i thought it was over, him thru with me, and during that time, i was really sad, and i thought i really did love him. Hell, i do love him, but he treats me like i am second or third(or less) best than.....
Lonestar Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 of course i got laid! it was even pretty good Well, at least the sex was good. Some men are only good for that. Kinda reminds me of my ex. Told me on Xmas that he didn't want to have to play games looking for a present for me. Go f*ck yourself, which is exactly what he's doing now. LOL
tiki Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 TMT, your PM made me realize something. My four year old put more thought into his dead ladybug gift than did your GROWN loser boyfriend. That pisses me off. I think you should reconsider him as a mate. Is he saying he's broke as all get out? Don't you feel like he could've done SOMETHING?! Even if he picked some f*ckin flowers?!
Pocky Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by tattoomytoe i know Pocky! actually we had a fight last week and i thought it was over, him thru with me, and during that time, i was really sad, and i thought i really did love him. Hell, i do love him, but he treats me like i am second or third(or less) best than..... You love him now or you love the person he was before the "bar" chick? You don't seem happy. Why stay in a relationship if you're not happy?
tiki Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky Why stay in a relationship if you're not happy? Especially if you're not married to the guy.
Author tattoomytoe Posted February 15, 2005 Author Posted February 15, 2005 i am not happy. i stay because it is what i know. and i tell myself since we do have good times i am happy, but i am really not. it is actually not good for my pschie either. if i am not happy i tend to do self destructive things, be it drugs, alcohal, food, harming myself..... anything to be passive agressive and inturn punish myself.
billybadass36 Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 ...I went all out. Fiancee was out of town teaching a class, and was on the road for 3.5 hours on the way back. I amazed myself and made a rosemary and herb encrusted pork tenderloin topped with a red onion jam, with sides. It was fricking incredible. Opened a bottle of wine, lit some candles, and she pulled in right on time. Had dinner, she was impressed, then she drew a bath because she was exhausted from her day. While she was in the tub, I started lighting candles, dimming the lights and getting all set for a little hanky panky. Well, as she was getting out of the tub and "slipping into something a bit more comfortable" her stupid, inconsiderate, loud-mouthed roommate busts in the door. DOH! They hadn't seen each other in a few days so they caught upon on girl stuff, listened to the Napoleon Dynamite CD for a bit, and I just grabbed my bottle of wine, a bottle of beer, and a book and grumped off to bed. I was asleep in an hour. I seriously wanted to assassinate the roommate. Assassinate. She KNEW I was making a romantic dinner, and it was V-Tines Day for pete's sake! Next time she's making a romantic dinner for her bf, I'm going over to his house unannounced to "hang out".
Author tattoomytoe Posted February 15, 2005 Author Posted February 15, 2005 Billy! that is aweful s***ty of her! she musta taken classes with MY BF!
savethedrama4allama Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Originally posted by billybadass36 ...I went all out. Fiancee was out of town teaching a class, and was on the road for 3.5 hours on the way back. I amazed myself and made a rosemary and herb encrusted pork tenderloin topped with a red onion jam, with sides. It was fricking incredible. Opened a bottle of wine, lit some candles, and she pulled in right on time. Had dinner, she was impressed, then she drew a bath because she was exhausted from her day. While she was in the tub, I started lighting candles, dimming the lights and getting all set for a little hanky panky. Well, as she was getting out of the tub and "slipping into something a bit more comfortable" her stupid, inconsiderate, loud-mouthed roommate busts in the door. DOH! They hadn't seen each other in a few days so they caught upon on girl stuff, listened to the Napoleon Dynamite CD for a bit, and I just grabbed my bottle of wine, a bottle of beer, and a book and grumped off to bed. I was asleep in an hour. I seriously wanted to assassinate the roommate. Assassinate. She KNEW I was making a romantic dinner, and it was V-Tines Day for pete's sake! Next time she's making a romantic dinner for her bf, I'm going over to his house unannounced to "hang out". NO WAY! I woulda helped clean your gun for that assasination
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