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I'm attracted to her and I think the feeling is mutual. I know it's kind of a bad idea to date. I kind of at least want to tell her. We see each other every day and there's a little ... je ne sais quoi. She's not married. We're the only two people on our team who are not married ... that fact was brought up one day by the presenter of the meeting, like in a romantic comedy. Just waiting for a cheesy pop song to play in the background.

 

I've thought about just saying I'm attracted to her but only talking about it and not necessarily asking to date. And if she's not into me I won't bring it up again. But, gosh, that's so awkward.

 

#streamofconsciousnesspost #badsophomorecreativewritingmajor #justneedtoexpressmyselfandseewhatyallthink

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There is no point in making it possibly awkward and telling her you're attracted to her, both because you're not looking to date AND you work together. Bad idea. Yeah... don't do it, for the love of gawd.

 

edit* Work romances are just by and large a bad idea.

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Yeah, go out with her.

But you dont need to verbalize anything.

I dont understand why guys feel the need to verbalize what they feel to a woman.

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Do not make an announcement about your feelings. That will be too awkward.

 

Work place romances have enough problems. If you are on the same team this is a really bad idea. If it doesn't work out then what happens?

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