The killing words Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 So I got dumped by my fiancé 3 weeks ago, she said we were perfect together but didn't want to commit to raising my kids and all that comes with it. I have 3 and they do not live with me. Our one year engagement anniv is June 21 I moved out. Got my own place and she kept texting about "I found this of yours" constantly every other day until last week when I finally got everything. I went NC on Thursday last week, she texted me Happy Fathers Day!! yesterday. I didn't respond until this morning and replied Thanks. We used to work together, I no longer work there but know one knew about us. I was a manager and she was an employee so I kept it quiet. So I get a text "I need to ask you something, its serious" I don't respond. She calls and I answer LOL I shouldn't have. She said she just got a message from a co worker that I hated cause he always hit on her. He said I heard you were engaged. I told her it wasn't from me. I told her she should just deny it and say that she was dating others. She was afraid to tell anyone about us for fear of judgment so she was quiet too. I really love her and I wouldn't ever want her to go through this but Karmageddon hit her. I wanted her to come back,I guess there's no chance to reconcile now. What do you guys think?
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 So I got dumped by my fiancé 3 weeks ago, she said we were perfect together but didn't want to commit to raising my kids and all that comes with it. I have 3 and they do not live with me. Our one year engagement anniv is June 21 I moved out. Got my own place and she kept texting about "I found this of yours" constantly every other day until last week when I finally got everything. I went NC on Thursday last week, she texted me Happy Fathers Day!! yesterday. I didn't respond until this morning and replied Thanks. We used to work together, I no longer work there but know one knew about us. I was a manager and she was an employee so I kept it quiet. So I get a text "I need to ask you something, its serious" I don't respond. She calls and I answer LOL I shouldn't have. She said she just got a message from a co worker that I hated cause he always hit on her. He said I heard you were engaged. I told her it wasn't from me. I told her she should just deny it and say that she was dating others. She was afraid to tell anyone about us for fear of judgment so she was quiet too. I really love her and I wouldn't ever want her to go through this but Karmageddon hit her. I wanted her to come back,I guess there's no chance to reconcile now. What do you guys think? Not really that interesting. Sounds like she is wanting you to pine after her and you arent...which is good. Don't contact her anymore. She is looking for you to answer and keeps wanting to toss the ball and you go fetch it.
Chi townD Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 So I get a text "I need to ask you something, its serious" I don't respond. She calls and I answer LOL I shouldn't have. She said she just got a message from a co worker that I hated cause he always hit on her. He said I heard you were engaged. I told her it wasn't from me. I told her she should just deny it and say that she was dating others What do you guys think? I would have said, "Well, tell him that you're not. You saw to that." Then I would have hung up.
Author The killing words Posted June 16, 2014 Author Posted June 16, 2014 That's what I did. Maybe I shouldn't care but now she has to deal with the aftermath.
GoBlue Posted June 17, 2014 Posted June 17, 2014 Break-ups are never easy. I am sorry for your pain, but would you really want to be with someone who feels that way about your kids? Better to find out now then to find out later. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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