Son21 Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 Me an my ex got together when he was still in a relationship which I know is not the best start! His relationship ended an he realised he was messed up an we stopped seeing each other! We are still friends any contact is initiated by me though! I bumped into him at weekend an he let me know he is with someone else! My feelings for him have never changed an I still want him back what should I do?? Any advice welcome x
d0nnivain Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 You should bow out gracefully. He wasn't yours when you started & now he's with somebody else. If he wanted you, he wouldn't have taken up with the new person. Sorry.
Author Son21 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Posted June 16, 2014 Thank you for your reply! I wish I could do that but I love this man so much I feel there must be something I can so about it
d0nnivain Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 What do you think you can do? He picked other people over you twice. You need to move on for your own sanity
Zahara Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 Me an my ex got together when he was still in a relationship which I know is not the best start! Most likely he was on the rebound. His relationship ended an he realised he was messed up an we stopped seeing each other! You probably helped him transition out of that relationship. We are still friends any contact is initiated by me though! You are not friends. I bumped into him at weekend an he let me know he is with someone else! This is twice that he's overlooked you. Time to let go. My feelings for him have never changed an I still want him back what should I do?? Any advice welcome x Your feelings are yours and only yours to deal with. It doesn't change the fact that he doesn't feel the same way. There is nothing you can do.
Author Son21 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Posted June 16, 2014 I guess you are probably right it's just killing me as we had something really amazing an I know there was a time he felt the same
Zahara Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 I guess you are probably right it's just killing me as we had something really amazing an I know there was a time he felt the same "Amazing" is your own belief and projection of what you thought you had together. It isn't his because if it was, something would have emerged from that instead it never quite materialized into anything because you yourself said that you both stopped seeing each other when he exited his relationship. I have a feeling he was on the rebound.
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