7on Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Oh brother here we go again... I honestly probably tried too hard, but I have two females in the "potential" category. First off, the first one is the girl I've mentioned here before on the forums. Last Wednesday she asked me to come over and work on homework with her, and then I found out she wasn't dating anyone. Unfortunately this occurred that night... and earlier that day this girl selling flowers asked me to buy a flower, I replied "Who'd I buy it for?" She said, "Buy one for me." And yeah we talked a bit on AIM a bit after that. And then today is valentine's so she (Dan) got her flower and the first girl (Shy) I gave some chocolates and a rose (nothing fancy, about $3 worth). The thing is whenever Shy would what I would describe as "flirt" with other guys I'd get jealous and next time I went into my room I'd talk to Dan. Keep in mind I've never dated either of these girls but Shy did give me a No and then said there was a possibility - asked Dan about studying together but she never got back to me but she did end up not studying at all. And apparently all these "guys" I've been jealous of have either been gay or in the friend zone too long (one guy she told that she couldn't make out with because she felt he was like a brother). Another thing that happened was that Shy invited people to a little movie watching Saturday night, but she did so while I was in the room. She called like everyone she saw the night before and invited them. She even invited some of the other filmclub people in person around me. But she never even asked if I wanted to come in. And as far as I know, I've been the only person who has been coming and visiting her in the fine arts building as she was working on her ceramics. And I was the only one to bring her a flower and candy. I don't know, whenever I talk to or am around Shy - I feel in love all over again - but when I'm around Dan or chatting with her - the same feeling comes over me. Honestly speaking I do feel like Dan is more attracted to me than Shy. She always seems to want to hold a conversation whereas Shy does seem to go off and do something without saying bye (on AIM). Physical attractiveness is non-issue because both are absolutely gorgeous. It just seems like Dan is more anxious to want to talk whereas Shy moves a little slower and takes her time. I wish one of them would just get pissed at me to make the whole thing go a lot smoother.
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