He doesn't ask questions about me

[Thegreatestthing]

We talk all day long from about 1pm to 2am non stop,he seems really interested and says I'm pretty alot,he's asked me to get together for tea maybe four times,tea is actually perfect for me.

 

but he doesn't ask me any questions about myself at all,he only talks about my appearence,but I do ask him questions,I mentioned it he said he is into me and wouldn't talk for so long,but not asking me any questions ,he seems like a shy person,is this reason enough to not get togther for tea and stop talking to him.

 

Not asking questions about you,talking a lot about your looks = sex ?

[PegNosePete]

is this reason enough to not get togther for tea and stop talking to him.

That seems a strange way to ask the question. Are you looking for reasons not to get together with him? Are you enjoying yourself and having a good time? Do YO think it's reason enough to not get together for tea?

[Emilia]

Not asking questions about you,talking a lot about your looks = sex ?

Does it matter? He must be incredibly boring. He has no idea how to build a connection/rapport.

[Thegreatestthing]

Yes totally true,boring,I guess I was giving him a chance because we have all the same interests but actually he does bore me a bit.i was thinking he would open up later as he said twice that's what he does once you get to know him,blablabla.

[Emilia]

Yes totally true,boring,I guess I was giving him a chance because we have all the same interests but actually he does bore me a bit.i was thinking he would open up later as he said twice that's what he does once you get to know him,blablabla.

I take a while to open up to people but as a result, I ask lots of questions about them.

[melell]

Your thinking on this one seems sounds imo. Some people can be really awkward at first, and become extremely interesting later on though, but usually you will see hints of that from the start.

 

good luck