Sikke Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 (edited) Hey, I met this girl awhile back I'd like to say a year going on two now. We talked a bit on and off and I've always had feelings for her. Well when we met me and her were both going through rough break ups. Well nothing happened the first time. We still talked but not very much. A few months later we started talking a lot again and things seemed to be going good like I was making progress with her. This was only for a month or so. But she always complained about being single and lonely. I told her how I felt about her one night at her place. She pretty much shot me down. I was convinced she was interested and wanted more. Well my close friends are friends with her as well. They say that she still complains how she can't find a guy in this city. They mentioned me but there wasn't much of a response. The thing is though I got over it a while ago. But I still very much like her and want her. I think she is extremely beautiful. She isn't really up there in the high ranks of looks. I can do a lot better. But I want her so bad. I dunno why I do though. Do you any of you think there is any way for me to make her realize that I actually want her and won't hurt her? It makes me depressed. My one friend that hangs out with her a lot said she just doesn't know what she wants. I wish I could make her want me... :/ I just don't understand why I'm still so attracted to this girl? I can honestly picture a future with her. It hurts just thinking about her. Could there be a reason why I'm still attracted to her? God I want there to be more with this girl so badly. I know if she ever gets into a relationship I'll be crushed. Thanks for your time P.S. She is five years older than me. But she isn't working in like a full time career or anything. Edited June 16, 2014 by Sikke Can a mod delete my first post?
Smilecharmer Posted June 17, 2014 Posted June 17, 2014 You want her because she came to you at a vulnerable time. Breakups are tough but don't put yourself out there for someone who clearly isn't interested in you or it is only going to erode your self esteem. For whatever reason, she blew you off so listen to that and know that the girl you want to be with must want you and a relationship with you without any doubt.
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