Angel29 Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 I met a guy in March 2013 who I really like. He travels 50 miles each month for a night out. He has told me he likes me and shown the signs but I feel I get mixed signals. He claims he is shy. I hear from mutual friends he is interested and then others say he wants me in his life but isn't prepared to give up his lifestyle. I don't know what giving up a lifestyle means as it is important to have friends and hobbies unless he enjoys dating around is the lifestyle people are on about. I have met many nice guys who can give me so much more who ask me to go out or dance with me. I don't know why I can't forget this guy, he has done nothing to woo me at all. He has the looks and on paper he is what I want but in person he seems socially awkward. I don't think I should wait any longer now as it is going nowhere. I just don't want to end up being someone who marries someone else but always has that other person in the back of my mind. Anyone got any advice on this? I can't take this anymore.
Gaeta Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 He is not worth your time, you are just into his look and his style. Each time I lost a man and thought I would never meet someone again that would capture me so much........I was proven wrong. There is always someone better around the corner.
DArtagnan2 Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 50 miles isn't far, at least for me. But my guess or opinion is, if he is in to you, then he would be around more then once a month. His lifestyle may be that he is always out with friends, or that he does projects around the house or neighborhood (since you say he is socially awkward). He may just like doing his own thing and a change of lifestyle for him would be getting involved in a relationship where that becomes the priority for him. Have you mentioned to him you would like to see him more? Do you have a car where you can go and see him? 1
Tayla Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 He is not worth your time, you are just into his look and his style. Each time I lost a man and thought I would never meet someone again that would capture me so much........I was proven wrong. There is always someone better around the corner. I took you up on your advice, looked around the corner and all I saw was two trash cans and a lost kitten. Neither of which I'd like to consider dating The OP needn't think that "THE ONE" that got away theory holds weight. It doesn't. we have the ability to adapt and be charmed at various times in our life. My suggestion to appease this nagging thought is for her to outright ask him out. Problem solved.
todreaminblue Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 I met a guy in March 2013 who I really like. He travels 50 miles each month for a night out. He has told me he likes me and shown the signs but I feel I get mixed signals. He claims he is shy. I hear from mutual friends he is interested and then others say he wants me in his life but isn't prepared to give up his lifestyle. I don't know what giving up a lifestyle means as it is important to have friends and hobbies unless he enjoys dating around is the lifestyle people are on about. I have met many nice guys who can give me so much more who ask me to go out or dance with me. I don't know why I can't forget this guy, he has done nothing to woo me at all. He has the looks and on paper he is what I want but in person he seems socially awkward. I don't think I should wait any longer now as it is going nowhere. I just don't want to end up being someone who marries someone else but always has that other person in the back of my mind. Anyone got any advice on this? I can't take this anymore. one point i have is if you hve someone in the back of your mind dont marry someone else......until thats persons out for the count that is sitting squarely in the drivers seat of a white what if .....it is greener grass that you dont need.. wait until you are over him, i have a similar situation i wouldnt marry anyone unless this guy is not popping up every time i see a white car.....iw ould however date another.......just not be intimate until the white car runs out of gas and makes me wonder every time if i see one is that...such and such nah....crap get outta my head......boots voice out..because i see blurs in a distance a white car is always noticeable to me stands out.............thats exactly how i think and no guy can compete with that enough that i would eb intimate...i made a mistake this year cant do it again......deb
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