Despair1 Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 (edited) Hey everyone, will you guys be kind enough to share your thoughts on my current situation, actually it's more of a crisis. So there is this woman I found on an online dating service and I kind of fell in love with her immediately after checking out her profile, pictures and just having some short conversations with her. Now it started months ago but I got myself away from it because she is a totally different country so I thought what's the use but ever since the day one I longed for her and still do throughout those months of no contact. I have resumed conversations with her. I know that I will get her to conversate with me more enthusiastically eventually(currently she doesn't). But I wanna ask this can it ever work out she is thousands of miles apart(in caribbean) and I am in Asia, she is black and I am south asian(brown skinned), she is 9 years older than me(she's 33 and I'm 24) and has a kid(not that any of it matters to me, I'm just saying we are very different apparently). I don't have enough money right now but as soon as I have some I'm sure I'll go pay her a visit. But how can I make it work? I really like her , I have become obsessed with her recently, she's on my mind all the time. I just can't get her out of my head. And no, I have not fallen for her physical beauty infact she is like pretty overweight. So guys what do you say how do I engage her long enough, before I am able to pay her a visit? I made it clear to her in the very beginning that I like her, initially she was very reluctant but then I got her to talk a bit more. And I know it's not a crush if it was just a crush it would have gone away in those almost 4 months of no contact. If I had the choice I'd marry her right now! :-( thanks for reading. Edited June 15, 2014 by Despair1 grammatical errors
Potz4prez Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 Go meet some girls in you area, date a bit, and then reevaluate this.
Author Despair1 Posted June 15, 2014 Author Posted June 15, 2014 Go meet some girls in you area, date a bit, and then reevaluate this. Thanks for replying, but actually I have done it, even in one of the most conservative places on earth, women are screened from all men here but still I tried and actually met few women I had to do this by trying extra hard because of where I live.
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