Should I give up on dating?

[Midwest guy]

Im about ready to give up. If she wont go out with me this summer then heck with it. I'll never get a pretty looking gf. Oh well at least I can save money. What should I tell my Phychatrist when I see him this week?

[Sckott]

I've only been really looking for about 2 months, but I'm starting to wonder what the heck I'm doing too.

 

I really think it's about being in the right place at the right time. Cupid doesn't come when it's called. Really wish that wasn't true.

 

Go on a selfish kick for a month (no chicks)? I would hate to think of this year as being a lonely one, but one has to take care of himself....

[CurvyGurl]

I think you should put a lockdown on yourself and do some self discovery and some growing up. Step back and take alook at yourself, from the outside in.

 

 

If you were a girl, would you date you? Honestly? And why/why not?

[debs]

oh come on MidWest guy!!!!!!

 

It has been hmmm 11 months since I gave him his ultimaium and just hmmm 3 months since my divorce and I am trying to date!

 

Give yourself time it just isn't the right thing for many to jump right back into dating early after a break-up!

 

Find happiness within you first the rest will flow!

[Midwest guy]

Well Im still upset not gettting Lindsay. It will take alot of time to get over.

[ziggue]

Take time out from dating and let yourself heal and figure out things. Who knows? Things usually happen when you least expect them too.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by Midwest guy

What should I tell my Phychatrist when I see him this week?

 

tell your shrink that you believe you may be ready to dating within your own league. that now, instead of shooting for gurls you cannot have you will start approaching the ones that maybe you can have.

[VirginiaBob]

"Well Im still upset not gettting Lindsay. It will take alot of time to get over."

 

I never had a problem getting over someone I didn't get - the problem is getting over the ones you do get.

[Sckott]

Yeah. You really don't know someone until you've really been with them for a long time. Then it's hard getting over them.

 

Maybe it's best this one got away? It's almost impossible to know.

[VirginiaBob]

I don't know MidwestGuy, I think you are giving up a little early on this one. Consider obsessing over her some more and stalking her for a few more months, then it's time to move on.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by VirginiaBob

I don't know MidwestGuy, I think you are giving up a little early on this one. Consider obsessing over her some more and stalking her for a few more months, then it's time to move on.

 

i agree VB...for MIDWESTGUY to give up before summer's end would be a travesty of justice!

[tiki]

Originally posted by Midwest guy

What should I tell my Phychatrist when I see him this week?

 

You opened yourself up for this one.

 

Tell him that you have a hard time letting go of things.

Tell him you're a little territorial.

And a little on the obsessive/possessive/stalker side.

 

Then ask if he has a single daughter.

[Midwest guy]

Originally posted by alphamale

tell your shrink that you believe you may be ready to dating within your own league. that now, instead of shooting for gurls you cannot have you will start approaching the ones that maybe you can have.

 

But I like pretty girls.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by Midwest guy

But I like pretty girls.

 

all men like pretty girls, but few men get them.

[JoL]

And girls like guys who don't act obsessively..

[DinNJ]

But I like pretty girls.

 

ROFL

 

Then you must like the drama that comes along with the "Pretty Girl" cause they go hand in hand.

[Midwest guy]

Originally posted by JoL

And girls like guys who don't act obsessively..

 

Thats why she doesnt like me smothering her she said and calling her?

[DinNJ]

Thats why she doesnt like me smothering her she said and calling her?

 

Correctamundo' .... from the most famous 'playa' of them all.... Fonzie. Notice how he doesn't call or smother girls??? He just snaps his fingers... Confidence... get some.

[tiki]

Yeah, women like men with confidence. Not jealous, insecure, possessive ones.

[DinNJ]

<---- it helps to have a good set of teeth too, like myself.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by DinNJ

Then you must like the drama that comes along with the "Pretty Girl" cause they go hand in hand.

 

don't forget the large bills also DinNJ. pretty gurls like nice cars, nice restaurants and nice everything.

[Midwest guy]

Originally posted by DinNJ

Correctamundo' .... from the most famous 'playa' of them all.... Fonzie. Notice how he doesn't call or smother girls??? He just snaps his fingers... Confidence... get some.

 

I mean why didnt she like the attention I gave her all the time for? She doesnt date she told me the other day too.

[DinNJ]

She loved the attention... when she wasn't getting it or when it was NEW to her. But after so much attention, it's no fun for her. You are no longer a challenge in her eyes... so in turn, she ups and leaves, looking for someone new....a 'challenge' to give her more attention. Bottomline.... You were too easy. Hey, it's ok to be nice... but there IS such a thing as being TOO NICE!!! ya gotta know when to pull back a bit.

[DinNJ]

She doesnt date she told me the other day too.

 

When a girl that is giving you a hard time speaks to you.... don't listen to her words. Because all she is really saying is Blah Blah Blah... that's what you should hear. Blah Blah Blah.

Forget her words... especially if they don't match with her actions.

[DinNJ]

don't forget the large bills also DinNJ. pretty gurls like nice cars, nice restaurants and nice everything

 

yea, I know... and we keep goin' back for the pretty ones, knowing damn well we're in for deep doo doo'

 

maybe it's time to lower my standards???

 

Nahhhhhh!