Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 I'm just opening this up for discussion because I think it's an interesting topic ... What are the pro's and cons of waiting till marriage. I am not a virgin personally neither are my a lot of my friends but here's the discussion ... I think for those who want to wait till.marriage. That's a beautiful thing. But there are those who think that it's really stupid to wait because as you get older your tastes of people change. Just like those who believe it's better to live with your partner before you marry and those who believe it isn't. I'm not for or against either side of the issue but I'm just interested in what peoples points of view are...
Gaeta Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 Sex-intimacy is a huge part of a relationship, it can make it or break it, for this reason I think it is unwise to wait after the wedding night to explore an aspect THAT much important. What if you get married and discover your girlfriend is frigid, doesn't like sex, or want sex, you will be in for a long sad life. What if you discover the night of your wedding that your bo has a micro-penis, or cannot hold an erection, or he has all kinds of hang-ups like he won't touch you here and there or put his mouth here or there. Here's the proof that sex is one of the main ingredient in a relationship. Lots of people will stay in bad relationships because sex is good, very few will stay in a good relationship when the sex is bad. Sex is the glue that holds everything together so why wait after the wedding to verify your sexual comparability. Make no sense to me. 2
central Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 If we're not sexually compatible, we're not compatible enough to marry, and this can only be determined by having sex.
GoreSP Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 The only pro I can think of is the complete absence of std risk if both partners have been 100% abstinent all those years. The rest is a loooooooon list of cons.
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