How do I get her back and ?

[sirtyner]

Heres what happened. About two months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We were very happy in our relationship but the only thing is she was moving to germany. That was the main reason why we split up. However we discussed before we split how we would make it work and how we would at least give it a shot. I saved up a lot of money to make this happen. I have family in Germany so id have a place to stay. Anyways I've already messed up.

 

After the breakup the first 2 weeks i kept begin and pleading. I kept texting her and calling her. I even went to the point where i was surprising her with gifts,writing her love letters, and whatnot. After al of that i stopped doing that. The next week i came to school dressed really nice and she was all over me. We ended up talking again and we started to like each other again. However after a week she told me that it wouldn't work out so we stopped talking again. The following week we were just friends and still had feelings for each other. However one day she went overboard and i told her i was completely done with her.

 

She immediately felt sad and came crawling back an hour later. She was begging for me and i ended up coming back within an hour. So for the rest of the week we were "Talking'. However a few days after that she told me that she is moving on and she found another guy (she had a thing with him for about a week). So a few days after that we started talking again and became friends. Then one day we got in an argument and she told me that she didn't want me in her life anymore. So i was devastated after that. However the next day she asked me to hang out with her and a friend at the pool. I did and we had a great time.

 

Later that day i asked her about not wanting me in her life anymore and she said that she likes being friends and its nice. So for the following week we talked a lot. One day that week (Wednesday) i drove her home but we stopped by my house. I went in for a hug and grabbed her butt and immediately she initiated the kiss and we made out passionately for like 10 minutes. One thing led to another but we did not have sex. After that day i notice she was becoming distant. I had made plans to go to the movies with a couple people and my ex decided to go last minute. We saw the movie together and we had a great time at the mall. My ex and i walked around for an hour and just talked about random stuff.

 

However she was leaving for california for the summer 4 days later. Anyways after we hung out at the mall she officially told me that she doesn't want me in her life anymore. The day before she left i asked her why she was doing that and she said "No reason i just want too". I was upset at that answer and i sent like 3 messages at a time telling her how ill always be there for her and whatnot. After doing that she told me that she never wanted to talk to me again and that she was completely done with me. After that i woke up to seeing that she had blocked me from every social media app possible.

 

So it is friday now and i haven't talked to her since monday. I honestly don't know what to do because i still love this girl.How do i get her back??????? Also she comes back for a week before she leaves for germany in july. Anything helps!!!

Edited June 14, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[DArtagnan2]

I was going to ask why do you want her back, but you said you love her so I wont ask that but I will ask, why would you want her back? She has done nothing but do the back and forth thing with you. Even went as far to date another guy after she led you on again and then dumped you.

 

have some respect for yourself and walk away. Once you let go of that drama you will be able to find someone who is in to you just as much as you are in to them. This girl has no respect for you or a relationship otherwise she wouldn't do what she is doing.

 

Time to move on, my friend.