123anthony Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 My girlfriend of a little over a year broke up with me and it was really painful for the first few months after, but I eventually felt good about "me" again. Recently we reconnected and the new relationship we built lasted a little over two months, till she broke up with me once more. In the first break up I had gotten no real closure, she broke up with me out of the blue. We had an amazing relationship, we were lovers and the best of friends, and we had begun to plan some of our future together, and it was awesome (nothing too extreme). This time around I found out the problem, but it wasn't closure. She's depressed, along with some other issues. I love her to death, and I want to be there to support her and grow together. I've really tried to make myself available for her, but she won't take much of my help or anyone else it seems. She can't make herself happy, so it's even harder for her to make me happy - or others. She wants to remain best friends, and have me as a support system basically. But she won't give me any definitive answers to our future. I want nothing but the world for this girl, but it's hard feeling like an option. I can deal without having the intimacy (for now), but it's tough wanting to talk and see her all the time, and not feeling the same excitement from her. Or that she won't take you up on your offers of help - even the simple ones. I've gone above and beyond for this girl, and want to continue doing so, but I'm not seeing an end result or the same interest. While she may have the issues I've listed, it's not affecting every aspect of her life. She goes to school full time, has two jobs, and helps support her family -- along with other community services. I guess I'm just not a priority right now, or maybe she's trying to change her life quicker than she can? It's confusing. Love is tough.
oracle Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK! Someone like that will only ruin your life and rob you of precious years. you want it more, because its so hot and cold.
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