reid Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 My friend and I argue every ****ing day! Why? We even agreed not to anymore but we still do! she will ask me for my worksheet and I will give it to her and then I will ask to see hers and she says no. When she asks again I say no because you didnt give me yours and she gets pissed off at me! Then today she asked this guy who sits in front of me (who she said creeps her out) and shes like "Hey, youre smart. help me out." Blah blah blah (is she trying to make me jealous?)WTF She thinks im a dumbass? She said she doesnt but thats what she was doing there. I get the feeling she doesnt care about me anymore because before when Id tell her I was gonna drop out of school she would get mad but now she just says I dont care what you do its your life. I also said Id switch seats with the guy who creeps her out and she just said fine youd be sitting only 1seat further. WTF!? Does she not care about me?! We always clear things up then we get along again but then we just start fighting again the next day! Friends arent suppose to argue like this all the time. How can I fix this?
Author reid Posted February 14, 2005 Author Posted February 14, 2005 Oh yea I forgot to add she gives me this mad look and rolls her eyes like she is embarrassed by me then later she will be all happy and lauging around me. Really confusing girl....
tattoomytoe Posted February 16, 2005 Posted February 16, 2005 first, she is using you and the other dude to get her work done(copied). i am sure if you meet her needs she will be nice, at least until she does not get her way again. what benefits are you getting from your friendship with her?
Author reid Posted February 16, 2005 Author Posted February 16, 2005 Using me? She helps me with my math! We been friends for 5 months and she doesnt even talk to the other guy. She just knew he had the answers hahaha. btw we hang out alot so I dont think she is using me. Ive said that to her before and she got offended...
Reactant Posted February 18, 2005 Posted February 18, 2005 okay, sounds like u just into a defensive mode there So let me get this straight. First, she wont provide her worksheet to u, but would graciously want yours. Second, u pointed out obvious reasons for her not caring about u (moving another side ahead, droping out of school neither would bother her) Third, she rolls her eyes at u like shes embarrased by u and later would be happy and act cool with u. Forth, of COURSE she is going to feel offended if u accuse her of using u, its not a compliment. Sounds like she is using you. Or u have too much pride to admit it. Oh well from your last defensive post, it seems everything if find and dandy with you and her....no?
greeneyedgirl23 Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 If I were you, i think i would just back off for a while. I would not be rude, but i would hang out with other friends. She will realize that you are/ were a good friend to her. If she doesnt try to patch things up, maybe you are better off without a person like her in your life.
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