Ghos86 Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 Hi everyone I really need help with my situation. And what she really want from me? Here is my story with this girl. Everything started a few months ago, while we worked together, she was my co-worker and we always work together in a computer tech lab. She have a boyfriend. One day she started to flirting at me, and I let her do it. After a week something happened that I started to have a crush on her, but after telling her that, she said that she was flattered, but she have a boyfriend, and our relationship should remain professional. However after I told her that I have a crush on her, she started to act more friendly with me. Also we used to be seated all the time in the computer lab, and sometimes by accident she touch one of my knees by moving her chair towards me. Why she do that? One day she tried to showed me something in her computer, and I was in my chair in the other computer, she makes space between her chair and the another computer chair for me to get closer to her, when I got very closer to her by breaking out the the friend zone, she immediately used some type of chap stick on her lips, and started talking to me a lot about different stuff in the computer monitor. Another work day she did the same with the chap stick on her lips, when she asked me to get very closer to her by breaking out the friend zone to helped her with a laptop, while we were updating the laptops, I gave her a few indirect, but she told me that she has a boyfriend, and she show me a picture of her with him together. Why she used chap stick on her lips when I got very closer to her passing the friend zone? Why she told me that she has a boyfriend if she let me get so closer to her that even I touch her arm by accident? Finally the last day of work she was dressed very nicely and she was very friendly with me. That day we were helping a customer with a cell phone, while I was holding the phone, she asked me if she could have the cellphone , and them she gently caress my hand while she took the phone off from my hands. Why she gently caress my hand? Then a few minutes before leaving from work, she seems to be prolonging the time talking and looking for more conversation. She knew that after that day she will never see me again. During that time she told me about this festival on the town that she was planning to go that day, I said that I were going to go after getting off from the work, and she said nice, but she said she were going to go after 7pm, she told me that like 3 times that she were going to go after 7pm when she leave work, but I said I were going to go at 5pm. Does she tried to said that she want to go with me, but at 7pm? For the reason that she leave work at 7pm and not at 5pm like me? Base in my story I did not understand if she was really interested in me, or what happened there. What she was trying to get from me. I am very confuse! I really will like to know an opinion from someone. I hope someone help me here, and I am very sorry for the long story.
preraph Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 Well, first of all the Chapstick means absolutely nothing. Nothing at all. Some people have to use lip balm a lot. I use it probably 12 times in a day. I certainly don't think of it as a flirting device. It has nothing to do with wanting to be kissed. In fact, I would try NOT to use it if I was about to kiss because it would be gross for the kisser. You said yourself she accidentally bumped knees. So I wouldn't make anything out of that. She's told you "no" twice and reminded you twice she has a boyfriend and "no." Coworkers HAVE to be friendly to other coworkers. As far as the festival thing, go there and find out. She'll probably be with her boyfriend.
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