todreaminblue Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 ...female friend to become a part time lover? destructive in all certainty....a loss and a waste of time and true friendship or thoughtfulness concerning the use of anothers body for sexual means and not respecting the heart or compassion of said person who is supposed to be first and foremost in your mind a friend of substance and feelings......you marry your best friend ....you dont root it for fun part time and then discard and do it multiple times.........crass i know sorry about that.....but freaking true.....deb
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 She'd probably roll on the floor with laughter Besides, if I ever wanted to have a relationship with a woman, I'd look elsewhere. My friends are my friends for a reason and I wouldn't want to jeopardize that for some random need for p*ssy. Seriously, what's with the question?
Author PoopHappens Posted June 14, 2014 Author Posted June 14, 2014 (edited) It's a genuine enough question looking for a genuine enough answer. Thanks. I am highly attracted to the woman. Always have been. If it was about p*ssy I would look elsewhere. Edited June 14, 2014 by PoopHappens
still_an_Angel Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 You need to be prepared to loose the friendship. If you really like her that way, why don't you court her properly so she can be your gf? 1
whichwayisup Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 ...female friend to become a part time lover? You lose that friendship once you cross the lines to make it sexual, casual or not, you'll never ever have that close friendship again. 1
whichwayisup Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 It's a genuine enough question looking for a genuine enough answer. Thanks. I am highly attracted to the woman. Always have been. If it was about p*ssy I would look elsewhere. Do you think she is into you? As in dating you and taking the friendship to something more serious? Being 'lovers' is one thing but if you have feelings for her too (not just sexual ones) then ask her out on a proper date.
Sugarkane Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 How long have you been friends for? If it's years, that would be too weird.
Author PoopHappens Posted June 17, 2014 Author Posted June 17, 2014 How long have you been friends for? If it's years, that would be too weird.Do people not change? Do situations and circumstances not evolve?
Tayla Posted June 17, 2014 Posted June 17, 2014 I am a believer that love blossoms from endearing friendships. Where i think you divert and upset the apple cart is by categorizing it as a part time gf relations. Most would clarify that terminology as fwb. Is that what you are seeking ? Most guys that are in the courting stage would vest full time. 1
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