jordanr1994 Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 i thought i was over my ex 1 month post BU. But i was lying to myself. Its now nearly 3 months BU and i think about her everyday. Ive removed her from every aspect of my life and social media. But i keep hearing about her new relationship which started a week after she broke up with me. Yes i was dumped after 2.5 years for someone else. They are going so fast, slept with each other with in 1st week, met parents within 3 weeks and now have a holiday booked!! (something we never did and i know she hated me for it) WHY am i still pinning for her after all of this? DO you think its a rebound, due to how quickly things are happening? destined to break up? I already work out and take pride in my appereance. Ive tried 1 night stands, dates and even a brief FWB. ive had to stop all of them. Im 20 years old and just hate feeling like this!
Chi townD Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 (edited) Nope! Not a rebound. You don't move that fast without something there to begin with. Dude, she started a relationship with this douche rocket while she was with you. She just didn't pull the trigger on you until she was sure the new relationship was going in the right direction. Sorry dude. Time to get your revenge. Edited June 12, 2014 by Chi townD 1
Alcatraz Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 I can relate to this as my ex is going on holiday with her new squeeze after just 3 months of being with him. Makes me realise that I was right to be paranoid near the end of the relationship though as she was obviously playing away. I've read up a lot about rebound relationships and they do tend to do things at a quick pace to try and forget about an ex, but that is exactly what you need to be doing, forgetting about the ex! You'll never be able to get the trust for her back and you deserve better! Move on and become a better person. If you've already had one night stands and dates then you're heading in the right direction.
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