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feelingdownto New Member

feelingdownto

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we broke up two months ago

 

 

"Hey how are you? I just wanted to tell you how I have been. I'm starting school in August. I went to a concert last friday and it was amazing. Not going to lie I'm glad you weren't there, because I flashed the security guys for some picks, and got drunk and was high. I knew you would have threw a fit so I'm glad you didn't go. I'm going to another concert in two weeks an I can't wait. So glad you aren't going. I'm glad we don't talk anymore. You were annoying and I odn't care to hang out with you anymore to be honest. If i never talked to you again I wouldn't mind"

 

Ouch....she dumped me for another guy and she says this?

 

 

That hurt bad

FortunateSon Established Member

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How old is she?

gj13 Established Member

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Wow, so much for "not caring about you/talking to you" and actually TAKING the time to write that. She's just trying to get at you with the whole "i flashed/got drunk etc", she knew that made you mad before, she's going at it to get a reaction from you. Just ignore it, she's completely immature and you're better off alone. Keep the NC

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triniechu Established Member

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Wow...how childish...

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marcjb Established Member

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Yup, she is just seeking your attention/reaction. Don't give it to her.

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JoeFallkon Established Member

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What happened to the other guy? maybe thats why shes doing this, theyre no longer together?

 

She just wants you to chase her, but ignore her, she ll go crazy. Mine is doing the same, sending me messages from a dating site i got the invite in my email to join the site, if i wanted to read the message. Been ignoring her and shes been goin nuts sometimes texting me at 2,3,4,5 am

 

Be strong. lont let her texts bother you and just errase them as soon as you get them so you dont go back to read them later.

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How old is this girl?

 

Doesn't seem like you lost out much with her. Ignore it. Delete it. Move on. What she did was straight up childish, and doesn't deserve any attention. She obviously doesn't have anything better to do than to update you on her drunkenness.

No Limit Established Member

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She just wants to provoke. Block her, let her stay in kindergarden.

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Chi townD Established Member

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LMAO! REALLY?!?!? WOW!

 

 

Be glad she gone. Read gj30's post. That's what exactly what's going on here. She fishing for a reaction. Don't give her the satisfaction. I guess NC is working!

 

 

Ignore it and continue with NC. Make positive changes in your life. Don't let this get you down.

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feelingdownto New Member

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she's 21 years old

Chi townD Established Member

Chi townD

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she's 21 years old

 

 

And going on 14.

 

 

Dude, do you really want to be with someone like that? Gets high and gets drunk at a concert. She flashes security guys to get pics.

 

 

Name me a occupation that you give a sexual encounter for something in return?

 

 

Yeah....that's your Ex now. This is not the girl you dated. Leave her in the past.

 

 

Time to heal and move on.

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Smarty Pants Established Member

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Her life clearly isn't what she thought it would be and is trying to pull you down with her. So childish.

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WOW and i thought my ex was a douche

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HeartbrokenNewbie Established Member

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The girl is baiting you, she still loves you and wants a response x

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if she was happy and complete in her life - she would not have emailed you.

 

she emailed you because she needs your attention... and she is lacking you in her life.

 

she feels you have the power - and she's trying to steal your power - power = attention.

 

keep your attention on yourself and keep your power.

 

don't give her any attention - and if you can block her somehow - that's what i would do - getting messages like that is borderline harrassment.

 

good luck!

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seminoles84 Established Member

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Whoa.. what a b*tch. If my ex sent that I would get over hear so much easier. You are way better off. Use this as ammo to fight any emotions that might make you miss her.

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Poppyolive Established Member

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****ty garbage ex of the day goes to this cow.

 

She's just trying hard to get a reaction from you....so she can have a laugh. The energy and anger it takes to write and feel something like this = dodged a bullet big time.

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LostOnes05 Established Member

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Yea, her youth combined with her immaturity is a toxic combo. Either ignore and block her or send her a nice, "Hope you had fun, sweetheart" message and then block her like Dikembe Mutombo in those Geico commercials!

 

Best of luck!!

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Ordinaryday Established Member

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she's totally jealous and hurting and wanting to get a reaction out of you. if SHE REALLY DIDN'T CARE she would not have bothered sending you the text, she would just ignore you and stay out of your life - that is what someone who TRULY DOESNT CARE does.

 

saying she doesnt care but going to the effort of texting you that shows she does care and wants a reaction out of you.

 

needless to say dont give her one.

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Elle1975 Established Member

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Might be that she's pissed because you are not begging. She is so mad that she had to try and provoke you. I'd really ignore that. If you are over her, Id even reply with ''I'm dating someone. Don't contact me again'' Then block her, because your phone will probably blow up with nasty messages..

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The girl is baiting you, she still loves you and wants a response x

 

That's not love, that's narcissism and looking for an ego boost. But no, that's not on the same planet as love. At least not for someone older than 15.

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And going on 14.

 

 

Dude, do you really want to be with someone like that? Gets high and gets drunk at a concert. She flashes security guys to get pics.

 

 

Name me a occupation that you give a sexual encounter for something in return?

 

 

Yeah....that's your Ex now. This is not the girl you dated. Leave her in the past.

 

 

Time to heal and move on.

 

This post made me laugh so hard! You should be happy she is making it much easier for you really easier. You are the adult now. Keep NC and laugh a her texts really !

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we broke up two months ago

 

 

"Hey how are you? I just wanted to tell you how I have been. I'm starting school in August. I went to a concert last friday and it was amazing. Not going to lie I'm glad you weren't there, because I flashed the security guys for some picks, and got drunk and was high. I knew you would have threw a fit so I'm glad you didn't go. I'm going to another concert in two weeks an I can't wait. So glad you aren't going. I'm glad we don't talk anymore. You were annoying and I odn't care to hang out with you anymore to be honest. If i never talked to you again I wouldn't mind"

 

Ouch....she dumped me for another guy and she says this?

 

 

That hurt bad

 

Wow. Whaaat a jerk! You are so much better off without her. That message screams insecurity and she seems like a total whorebag anyway.

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me85 Established Member

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I'm speaking from experience, so hear me out:

 

I know people have to learn from their own mistakes and no matter what kind of advice anyone gives you you're ultimately going to do what YOU WANT TO DO.

 

I have been in a very bad relationship with someone very similar. He never went that far but I got "I want to be a better boyfriend for this girl, she makes me happy and is making something of herself." so that was just as awful as what your ex sent you.

 

I put myself through so much hell with my ex all because of my stupid ego.

 

My ex and I were combative when we were together and I'm so glad we're not together anymore because I know now just how much I'm worth and that I deserve so much better than him.

 

He is completely narcissistic, selfish and immature. He CRAVES attention.

 

Never stoop to their level. Don't you even respond to her. If you feel you must & you do, I hope it's something along the lines of, "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." THEN BLOCK HER A$S.

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jbelle6 Established Member

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Wow, classy.

I don't use the naughty c word often, but if the shoe fits. She can wear it.

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