NYyanks819 Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Hey guys, ON day 1 of NC this is so hard because all I want to do is check there Facebook, instagram etc to see if there thinking of me, but I put blockers up so I don't look and deleted all my accounts etc…. I know every time I check it sets me back but I want to know if they have a new person in there life etc but I can't I have to kill all hope until I get over them is the key! Just need support that I can do this.. Thanks!
FredJones80 Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Stay strong, it does get easier, the first few days/week are the hardest. Just have to battle through the initial days. 1
triniechu Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 You can do this. I am on Day4! It's hard though, I feel the same way and want to text, call him and check his FB. 1
hidden_ua Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 just hand on. 1 year of nc in my case, so you can do better. i am sure. bol 2
nightrain Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 (edited) Hey guys, ON day 1 of NC this is so hard because all I want to do is check there Facebook, instagram etc to see if there thinking of me, but I put blockers up so I don't look and deleted all my accounts etc…. I know every time I check it sets me back but I want to know if they have a new person in there life etc but I can't I have to kill all hope until I get over them is the key! Just need support that I can do this.. Thanks! Omg you sound just like me a year ago...But I've somehow someway made it to a year & 1/2 of NC and it was very VERY hard.I used to stalk my ex's facebook to try to see who he was dating,but I haven't done that in a while nor do I plan to now or EVER in life.And I downloaded this software called K9 so now I cant see anything and it has helped me out so much when I got the "urge" to look. I had put in my mind that my Ex wasn't stalking me online to see what I'm doing because he doesn't give a crap so why should I? It was quite pathetic. Just keep going,DO NOT break NC,DO NOT look at their profiles and you're only gonna hurt yourself more if you do,and will gain nothing from it except pain. You will thank yourself months from now, trust me. Best thing I ever did! Move on with your life even though its easier said than done. Edited June 12, 2014 by nightrain 1
Author NYyanks819 Posted June 13, 2014 Author Posted June 13, 2014 Yes! See I have self-control on My mac which works awesome and blocks everything. The only time I get nervous is when I go to like best buy etc and I know the computers have access. .I also have a block on my iPhone as well where I don't have internet lol… I am taking this seriously, since I know the only way to get over her and move on is to NOT know what she is up to ever or who she is dating etc. Day 2 now! the first few days/ week is the hardest we can do this thanks everyone!! 1
Author NYyanks819 Posted June 13, 2014 Author Posted June 13, 2014 another thing I found instead of listening to sad songs etc.. Listen to songs that help you like Destiny's Child survivor etc… lol helps the trick we all have to do is convince our minds it is OVER officially and KILL the hope. I love this forum and the support
nightrain Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 another thing I found instead of listening to sad songs etc.. Listen to songs that help you like Destiny's Child survivor etc… lol helps the trick we all have to do is convince our minds it is OVER officially and KILL the hope. I love this forum and the support Yes, keep listening to uplifting songs. And a song suggestion is "Another me"-by Tinashe and "cheers"-by Rihanna, the lyrics help lol ^^
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