NewfieEd Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Hey guys, my girlfriend recently broke up with me, it really crushed me quite a bit because I thought she was amazing. She cited her reason as, she is moving away (2000 miles) and out of country so it wouldn't make sense to continue. So she has been sending me messages like "things could have been different if I had more time" and "your a great guy". Last night I was at a sporting event and she made eye contact. She then walked directly in front of me and turned her head in the opposite direction. I just let it go and told myself, "ok I guess she doesn't even want too see me". Then at 2 am, she was drinking and wrote me and said "I didn't know you were at the sporting event last night, I just saw it on Facebook". I wrote back and said you have to be kidding me, and she said " do you really think I wouldn't say hi?".. I just don't know how to interpret this. She crushed me by leaving me and I was starting to feel a bit better then boom she throws this at me. I am convinced she saw me so I don't know why she would write me. Maybe to make it less awkward ?? She didn't ask me if I would move the 2000 miles, just put the words in my mouth that I would not move. So I don't know what to say. Should I just stop contact with her and let myself get over it?
Storm_Chaser Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Would you have moved? Maybe let her know how you feel? However, my main question is: you state in your title that she kicked you when you were down and out. What has happened that you are down and out? Anything that could effect her views of you? Work issues? Personal issues? Maybe the issues that have you down and out is the reason why she avoided you at the sporting event?
Orange floor Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Yep its confusing but we do live in a world of confusion and never more so than in love and emotion. If she is moving 2000 miles then its not easy to see a relationship working. But thats not to say that up till the time she goes there cannot be civility and even sometimes dinners etc. At the same time she needs to be aware from you that you have a need to get on with your future for your own self worth. Make her realise that what she said was correct you are a "great guy" with her and without her. Its tough to be dropped but its worse if they cheat when you think it was continuing so be above her shenanigans if thats what they were and make it that it didn't matter. get a great date and punch one above your weight that will make you feel much better ......... good luck
hidden_ua Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 thats what they do bro. when you aint going through "A GOOD PART" of your life, they bitches leave. so just try to move on. best of luck
bluenote Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 If they bitches we be dogs because we are born from them, our own sisters may also be breaking hearts as we speak and I won;t allow anyone to call my sister a bitch. Your anger is understood but missplaced, we are all brought together here by a common reason which is heartbreak and trying to cope. We should do this within bounds, its not going to be pleasant if everybody now starts uttering things that takes the whole situation in an unwanted direction, Be that as it may, I was cheated on and wondered how it would feel to be the one dealing the blows. I approached a lady and started chating. She says she has someone, even said special, I said I too have someone and I even spoke well about my someone how kind and loving my someone is, but I told her that I am very much interested in her. She gave me her mobile number. Two days after we met I text her, I went for the all out and told her how beautiful she is and that I just want her. We met aftroon for a walk and I told her the nasty things I want to do by accident to her, she was quite amused and was ready. I couldn't allow myself and I deleted her number, she text three times after that and just went quite. The morale of this story is we are all just bad or good which ever way you take it
bubbaganoosh Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 Two AM, drinking, so no doubt her booze did the talking. Look, if your going to move 2000 miles away for her, or I should say "were" you damn well better be sure she's worth the move. That's a lot to do for you and my advice is to just say good bye and wish her luck.
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