Drspell12 Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 So ok long story short, i met this new girl but theres something weird about her because she wants to be friends with my ex, and she doesnt seems worried at all about the relationship we shared or anything, the thing is, is this normal? is she doing it because she is confident or can it be that in reality she is a controlling person or is jealous? what to do?
marcjb Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 So ok long story short, i met this new girl but theres something weird about her because she wants to be friends with my ex, and she doesnt seems worried at all about the relationship we shared or anything, the thing is, is this normal? is she doing it because she is confident or can it be that in reality she is a controlling person or is jealous? what to do? Is your ex someone that you are still friends with, and she also wants to embrace the friendship? Either way, it's probably a case of keeping your friends close and your enemies closer.
Author Drspell12 Posted June 12, 2014 Author Posted June 12, 2014 No we arent, she didn't wanted to be friends so i respected her choice.
marcjb Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 No we arent, she didn't wanted to be friends so i respected her choice. Then I would tell her that you would rather keep the past in the past. 1
Poppyolive Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Yah that's just weird. Past is past. If you and this girl are embarking on something new...why bother with her being friends with your ex when you are not.... Have you asked her why she wants this? If she really wants to be friends with her then so be it, but if you feel uncomfortable with it then perhaps not bother Persueing this new girl. See if she wants to be friends with her without you?? She's up to no good with this request. If I were you I'd paint a very clear picture of not caring for drama or games. 1
Author Drspell12 Posted June 12, 2014 Author Posted June 12, 2014 exactly, why would she be interested in her anyways? it seemed to me like she was being silly instead of mature, this never happened to me, i guess it would have been more normal if she just wanted to be indifferent towards her, i dont want to cause any problems so i guess i will wait to see what her real intention is
somedude81 Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Just tell her that you are no longer in contact with your ex and that it's not possible for her to talk to your ex.
d0nnivain Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 The new girl is odd or she is a real fan of The Art of War -- keep your friends close but your enemies closer. If your new girl doesn't already know your EX I would not facilitate a relationship between them. That can't work well for you. 1
IHavNOclue Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 It would creep me out if my Ex boyfriend's new girlfriend wanted to be friends with me. I would post it on Facebook and everything on what a total creeper she is..etc. I would ask this girl WTF and tell her to stay the EFF AWAY from your EX. Otherwise ya'll are both going to look really stalkerish. 1
Alexjones1 Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 Yea man If you dont have kids with your ex, then this new girl needs to get sent out the door. She is already trying to invade your entire life. my two cents 1
hidden_ua Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 DON'T EVER let your gf do that. had a relationship for past couple of months with a girl who knew my ex and damn, she often used to test me whether i feel for her, moved on or not etc and i hated it. 1
Author Drspell12 Posted June 13, 2014 Author Posted June 13, 2014 actually i talked to her about it today and she got in the position of accusing me of still having feelings for her. So i broke it off... we weren't on a relationship yet but I think its better off this way. 3
hidden_ua Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 actually i talked to her about it today and she got in the position of accusing me of still having feelings for her. So i broke it off... we weren't on a relationship yet but I think its better off this way. you did good bro. i would suggest someone who doesnt knows anything about your past. this is the only way you (and me) can move on.
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