acidrein_08 Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 Today is your day. If you feel like contacting your ex or sending her a card then [color=red]DO IT[/color]! Write them a text message, send them an email, flowers, leave them a note on there car, just be cool about it and don't beg them back. Realize that things are over and that you need to move on if you aren't already but still have a heart and show them you are better than them. Be nice, even if your convinced they won't contact you back then who cares? At least you were always the better person for saying how you felt. Do what you want, and [color=red]ENJOY VALENTINE'S DAY[/color]!!
Author acidrein_08 Posted February 14, 2005 Author Posted February 14, 2005 Today is your day! If you feel like contacting your ex or sending her a card then DO IT! Write them a text message, send them an email, flowers, leave them a note on there car, just be cool about it and don't beg them back. Realize that things are over and that you need to move on if you aren't already but still have a heart and show them you are better than them. Be nice, even if your convinced they won't contact you back then who cares? At least you were always the better person for saying how you felt. Do what you want, and [COLOR=Red]ENJOY VALENTINE'S DAY[/COLOR]!! :lol:
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 hmmmm.... decisions, decisions..... NO! She doesn't deserve it.
alphamale Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by acidrein_08 Today is your day. If you feel like contacting your ex or sending her a card then [color=red]DO IT[/color]! just be cool about it and don't beg them back. Realize that things are over and that you need to move on if you aren't already there is a disconnect in the two stmts above. If someone has realized it is over and they need to move on then why contact their ex on V-day? Shooting yourself in the foot would be less painful than contact your ex for no reason.
Grinning Maniac Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 I, for one, am not contacting my ex at all today. Why bother putting myself through the emotional pain, on a day that usually sucks when I'm just plain old SINGLE, let alone recently dumped? I'm going to go out and enjoy myself. But here's some Valentines advice: You should've listened to us before, you dope. *shakes head*
Pocky Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 I'm not sure why someone would send a Valentine's card to an ex, but like you said, do whatever you want. I think it's stupid, but then I'm not the sender.
jellybean Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 Contact my ex on Valentine's Day?!!?...that's crazy advice. I have no intention of ruining my day.
Author acidrein_08 Posted February 14, 2005 Author Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by acidrein_08 Do what you want, and [color=red]ENJOY VALENTINE'S DAY[/color]!! I don't think that sending a card or just being nice is doing anything wrong. If you think differently then I then it's like I said, do what you want, just have a good day you all!
Pocky Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by jellybean Contact my ex on Valentine's Day?!!?...that's crazy advice. I have no intention of ruining my day.
SinceIvebeenlovingU Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 I can't help it...I want to tell you off right now... Why the f*** would you want to contact your ex...so they can stroke their ego...this is BAD V_DAY ADVICE....DONT TAKE IT....Stick to NC...You want to call them and yell at you or cuss at you because they don't care about you anymore... and they don't want to be bothered with you...then do it...but hell man...you'd be asking for a crap load of hassel and stuff I wouldn't want...talking about opening pandora's box....DO NOT CONTACT THE EX TODAY...!!!!!!....There is no need to stab yourself again the chest....If you want to go get some butter knives and gently insert them into your heart...because that's what your basically doing...
Author acidrein_08 Posted February 14, 2005 Author Posted February 14, 2005 No it isn't. I am having a wonderful day even after emailing my ex a poem and a few words. I could care less if she does email and really I would rather her not becuase I don't have anything else to say to her. You need to **** off me and do what you want. Don't ****ing trash my idea cause you don't like it, do what the hell you please with yourself and have a great day.
search4what Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 I for one, really considered calling my ex today, but decided against it for a couple reasons. I don't want to hear her voice because it will only make me miss her more, I don't want to have to leave a message when she doesn't answer the phone, I don't want to know if she has a date or is seeing someone, and I don't want her to know I am thinking about her on this godforsakin day!
verschoor Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 My ex called me the other day asking if I wanted to hang out today. I told her I would though I probably shouldn't have because I know its only right to bring them something. I got her flowers which Im cool with but she asked me to think about what we wanted to do tonight. Now Im thinking.. I know she wants to go somewhere, and Im guessing she wants me to take her out somewhere but I just want to hang out or something. I'd feel like a dick though If I just said lets stay in but then I don't really want to go anywhere. I mean, were not dating anymore... I broke things off.
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 and I don't want her to know I am thinking about her on this godforsakin day! She knows it already. but don't sweat it, cause she's thinkin' bout you too. so take some satisfaction in knowing that.
Isabella82 Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 Today has been really hard for me. I keep having these memories on how great Valentines has been the last two years. I won't be calling my ex today, I mean we haven't even had any contact at all since the break up. I can't even take some satisfaction that my ex is thinking about me today, like DinNJ says, because I don't think that he is. Even though I know I am getting over him little by little today still is such a sad day for me.
DinNJ Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 we're all in the same boat.... I try to put up a good front.... truth is.... if I could be anywhere right now, it wouldn't be sittin' in front of this computer... It would be sittin' with the girl who treated me like shi#... make some sense outta that one, and I'll give ya a cookie. *climbs out on ledge*
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