Friwi Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Hi My Bf and I broke up about six days ago, it was a month and a half in the making as we lived together ( and it took a while to move out so we stayed together officially until we moved) and we haven't been in contact since. I haven't asked specifically for NC, neither has he. I suggested we needed some space to let the dust settle and he said that he would probably close off for a few days and not be particularly responsive. Is this NC? Or is it just space? We have both gone home to where we originally come from and are quite busy visiting people so it could be that he is busy, but I've thought of him on numerous occasions and could easily contact him but haven't. FYI - the break up was his call. He fell out of love with me (after I masterminded his career - not a brag, I was actually the woman behind the man...) and we are planning on remaining friends, but right now I feel rather cast aside and forgotten about. Advice would be great - I've never done NC before so I don't know if it has to be formalised or whether this counts.... Fri
gj13 Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Honestly, it is what you decide it to be. It should be your decision nor solely his. Since he broke up with your it should be your call to NC. And its your choice to let him know or not. I wouldn't. Don't wait around for him to make up his mind on whether he keeps in touch or not, let him know that you're not playing and won't stand it like it is.
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