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Okay, A girl I dated who turned into just a friend, she started dating someone else and it's making me feel lonely. I know people are going to say its because I like her. I really don't (in that way). When I think of her with someone else it doesn't bother me. What IS bothering me is I just turned 40 and it sucks being single now. We are still friends and talking but she now has someone that makes her happy and I don't.

 

Now I have this urge to want to contact girls I've dated or have been on dates with to see if that are "available". I guess its the lonely in me looking for companionship because I feel sorry for myself.

 

Is this normal? I'm just looking for words of encouragement.

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perhaps you need to take some time out from dating and reflect on yourself. 6 months or so...perhaps the new year will give you some fresh perspective?

 

spend some time finding yourself and being alone.

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