qmgal123 Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Haven't seen my ex in a year but talked on and off through out. Not sure why they want to meet up?! We scheduled to meet up 6 months ago but he canceled last minute. Broke up because we moved to different countries. Any advice on whether to go or not? I feel over it, but haven't met anyone else who's measured up.
David87 Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 I don't see anything wrong but don't have high expectations.
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 what are you hoping to achieve by meeting with him? I generally stay away from ex's or ex flings, or emotional affairs, relationships, soul ties... whatever if it's in the past, that's where it should stay but if you feel that you will gain wisdom and perspective rather than heart ache and devastation, then by all means go for it. But if you're not strong enough, and there is a hint that " no one has measured up since" then I say don't. Only because, it'll unleash a torrent of emotions which you may find later harder to control. I've been thiere before myself, it wasn't a pleasant experience and left me thinking about him and it for weeks later. If you are emotionally free and over it, then you can have a platonic get together and catch up and it may even be nice. But, if you know in your heart that it will be somewhat difficult. Cancel.
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