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Should I get back together with my girlfriend after she cheated on me?

soccer467

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We have almost been dating for a year. She was with one major guy before me who cheated on her. I am her second and she is my first, I love her so much. She said she would never ever cheat on me cause she knows what it feels like. However, last week she said we needed to have a talk and she told me my worst nightmare. She was at a party, got really drunk, and cheated on me... Caught me by total surprise because I never meet anyone who cares about me as much as she does.

 

Her apology was very sympathetic and knows she ****ed up and regrets it. Its been a week since and we've been crying together 4 out of the last 7 days. It has been very painful. I broke up with her as soon as she told me. Normally I would just move on but the love she expresses for me is beyond words. Next year we will both be going to college and she even just signed a lease for an apartment and going to college next to me JUST FOR ME. I thought this was crazy.

 

I thought about if i ever cheated on her i know i would want her to take me back. This has been so hard and I have been just so lost.

 

I also have been thinking about getting with other girls, not to get back at her but to just experience what it is like since I have only had sex with just her and she has had sex with 3 guys now. Is this something I should talk to her about? I feel like she would be very upset at this...

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I think you should move on. Statistically it is extremely difficult to make a relationship work once the trust is broken due to infidelity. Your relationship will never be the same again even if you take her back. Go with your other thought - get with other girls.

MrMeh Established Member

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She cheated on you and you are also pondering if you need more experience before its too late. It honestly seems like getting back would be more troublesome.

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Ordinaryday Established Member

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sure of course you should take her back!

 

but please don't act surprised when she cheats on you again!

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David87 Established Member

David87

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Once a cheater always a cheater.

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triniechu Established Member

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Love makes people blind, but once cheated on TRUST IS LOST. I hope you make the right choice to save yourself from the hurt.

SciFiWriter Member

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She has betrayed your trust and disrespected you in the worst way possible.

 

Move on - there are better girls out there!

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Michelle ma Belle Established Member

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Sorry sweetie. I'm pretty hardcore when it comes to cheating of any kind. Trust is hard to build under the best of circumstances never mind after a betrayal like this.

 

Do you really want to spend the rest of your relationship wondering every time she's out of your sight?

 

And don't stoop to her level by getting busy with other women. That's just stupid and reckless. Is that really who you want to be?

 

Good luck.

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Chi townD Established Member

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I thought about if i ever cheated on her i know i would want her to take me back. This has been so hard and I have been just so lost.

 

 

 

 

If you cheated on her, you would want her back. But, if you cheated on her, would SHE want you back? If the shoe was on the other foot, you would be kicked to the curb in a New York minute and you know it! If you cheated on her, it would be over because of what happened to her in the past.

 

 

You need to think on that one.

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