marigo Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 (edited) I met a guy through a mutual friend. He has a 6 yr old kid and we're both in our mid 20's. Been talking for about a month now and we've hung out about 5 times and I'd say 4 out of 5, it's been with his kid which I dont mind at all. I was surpised how early on he introduced me to her. Anyway, he has not made a move at all yet. Besides the hug when we see each other and saying goodbye, he has not held my hand or kissed me or put his arm around me yet. I feel like I've dropped hints by sometimes I would touch his back or whatever but still nothing. I'm starting to wonder if he's even interested in me romantically or he just sees me as a friend. I understand he probably doesn't want to do anything in front of his kid just yet, but we did have some alone time in these hang outs. Obviously i try not to touch him in front of his kid either to be respectful. Our mutual friend had a talk with him and I guess he said that he really likes me and wants to take things slow. He said he didn't want to do the physical things yet because he doesnt want the relationship to be just that-physical, since he wants something serious. I dont know. I guess maybe im just not used to a guy not making a move yet at this point. What do you guys think? Edited June 11, 2014 by marigo
Assasda Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Ask him to go out somewhere with you, or you could just sit back and keep wondering and hoping
ExpatInItaly Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 I met a guy through a mutual friend. He has a 6 yr old kid and we're both in our mid 20's. Been talking for about a month now and we've hung out about 5 times and I'd say 4 out of 5, it's been with his kid which I dont mind at all. I was surpised how early on he introduced me to her. Anyway, he has not made a move at all yet. Besides the hug when we see each other and saying goodbye, he has not held my hand or kissed me or put his arm around me yet. I feel like I've dropped hints by sometimes I would touch his back or whatever but still nothing. I'm starting to wonder if he's even interested in me romantically or he just sees me as a friend. I understand he probably doesn't want to do anything in front of his kid just yet, but we did have some alone time in these hang outs. Obviously i try not to touch him in front of his kid either to be respectful. Our mutual friend had a talk with him and I guess he said that he really likes me and wants to take things slow. He said he didn't want to do the physical things yet because he doesnt want the relationship to be just that-physical, since he wants something serious. I dont know. I guess maybe im just not used to a guy not making a move yet at this point. What do you guys think? He wants to take things slow, yet he's already introduced you to his child and frequently brings him on get-togethers? Eh?
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