jeeyjj Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Met this girl in school, we had a same class. She approached me, added me on fb, we got along really well, and i started develop feelings for her. I knew she liked me (telling me dirty jokes, drove me home, help me with stuff..) but being the tool I was I didn't act on it. Fast forward to end of the semester, I asked her out, she told me she's seeing someone and would go out as friends. I stop all kind of contact with her right then and there, no more text, likes, unfollowed on ig even. (probably the only thing I did right at that time). After more than a month of no contact, she hit me up. we exchanged text, I kept it brief, and had her over one night, we made out, in the bed, I touched her everywhere, fingered her through panties, when I tried to undress her, she called stop. I kissed her more and touched more, after 2 attempt, I had to let it go. She said she felt weird. She laid in my bed and looked at me in bubbly eyes, and eventually left because i had to do work. we hugged and said will meet on sunday at the premiere. that was the first time we got together in more than a month. I couldn't resist and texted her few days later to see what she's up to, she said she's busy (she already told me that through previous texts and it's also why she came over that night to hangout. but i just wanted to see if she's free. i know, i know, shouldn't have done that) Next time I see her was at my friend's movie premiere, she came with some dude, she introduced and said he's a friend. I messaged her in about a week to hangout on the weekend, she already has plans and told me what she's doing, I asked if she wanted to hang after work that very day, she said she's busy and didn't suggest any other time. she asked me an obvious question to try to keep the convo going, but I ended the convo with "ok cool, let me know when you're free". That was last weekend, haven't heard from her since. She never initiate any contact after the premiere. only accidentally called me 3 times the day after.. she said it was butt dial. I said as long as everything is ok. Has she moved on? seeing another guy? or is just playing hard to get? what's going on..
Assasda Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Go ahead and see other people man. Dont get needy for her attention now. Seems like you know all the things that youve done wrong. So keep on trusting your gut
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