XianErick Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 We broke up yesterday night. An argument came up when I was sharing how I felt about my current social predicament (I.e. I have no friends). She's practically my only friend and I have family too. I spend a lot of time home and when my father asks me if I'm going out on the weekends my answer is always no. I've become a little sad over it, with only 3 people telling me happy birthday on Facebook, along with five family members. I told my gf that I'd be going out alone to clubs, concerts, anything really I just need time away from her sometimes. We've dealt with this before and I'd go hang out with my estranged friends, who aren't in the picture anymore. Anyway she started mandating that I do not speak to any female. I felt that her insecurities should not govern my social life, basically abandoning 50% of the world from my life. I think it was an unfair call and would be borderline sexist of me to go through with. I don't really need advice I'm just bummed out, she freaked out on me and had me arguing until two in the morning. Even for sometime today. Anyway thanks to anyone who actually reads through.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Mmm this isnt good, she is obviously very insecure and this is unfair on you. She needs to understand that by doing this she will push you away. I wouldnt normally say this but I think she needs a quick, sharp shock to make her realise that having you in her life is better than you not being there at all x
Keenly Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Get ready to get advice from ALL over the place on this one. Every thing from " she's insecure, make friends " to " good, she SHOULD be demanding that and you SHOULD be obeying her "
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