bambu007 Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 Hello there, I am kinda new to this site. So sorry about if i am not to good at this. Ok, Well I have a problem that i don't know how to fix. See Myself and my girlfriend have been togethere for 6mounths now and I had been thinking that we have been going along good. Till today. See about 8weeks ago she asked me if i would marry her... I said yes but not for a bit. (Just because she is 17 and i am 18) anywayz to cut a long story short. In 6weeks time she is moving up here to live with me. Now this all sounds good hay?? But today I found something, something that i must have not ment to have seen. I found some stuff that she has been typing on my computer. Now befor i keep going i will just let you know that she is very close to her bestfriend and her name is (Joanna). Ok well i read the start of it. It went like, "Joanna thinks i am crazy beening with him, And i duuno she might be right? I duuno what to think. I make him so happy, if i ever hert him I hate to think what he would do." And after reading this it was like someone had hit me in the balls. So from what i get from it all, Is that she knows that I love her. But i don't think she realy loves me? It sounds like she is just saying with me because i am alot more happyer now that i have her. But what i don't know is how could things chance so so so much. Untill today i thought we were going grate! But now i just duuno what to think. If anyone could help me with this problem it would help me lots. ta.
kypepeo Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 If she didn't like you, she wouldn't be moving in with you. Joanna probably told her that she can do better and seeing as she trusts her, she started thinking that there might be some truth to that and that's what caused the confusion. Look at her actions and not just that letter to Joanna. everything you have said so far indicates that you have nothing to wory about except of course, her friend. I hate to break it to you but at her age, it's very likely that she can break up with you because of what her friend says despite what she feels for you. It doesn't have to go that way though so all the best.
westernxer Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 She asked YOU to marry HER? Are you sure you're ready for this? I mean, you're only 18. I say don't do it. The two of you are still very young, and I think you're going to regret this down the line. If you have plans to go to college, then definitely don't do it. Trust me, you're better off just being friends for now, at least until you get more life experience. Sounds to me like you don't know what you want yet. If you choose to settle down now, you may end up throwing your life away. Nothing personal, but I've seen it way too often.
RecordProducer Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 She asked you to marry her, and you basically said NO. She is disappointed, that's why she is talking like that to Joanna. Of course, you shouldn't marry now, you're still a child (she is officially a child). Just know where the problem lies. You don't know the whole letter so don't judge by one sentence. Relax and ask her what's wrong cuz you felt something. Most likely she will tell you if you dig deep enough. Enjoy your love, kids, don't think about settling down at this age. You can always get married, but it's hard to break some things up...children come to this world, ya know, and they suffer. Everything will be okay, don't worry!
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