shatteredworld Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 I had a really bad breakup a year or so ago, and I had a difficult time getting over it. I never met anyone that "paled in comparison." What finally made me get over it was this other guy I met, I started a new job and there's this guy I work with that I'm really liking at the moment. So I'm here to get some advice at how I should approach this. I have no idea whether this guy likes me or not so I'm not sure if waiting around for him to ask me out is the right thing to do? I try to spark up conversations outside of work via facebook (it's the only communication I have with him outside of it at the moment). But he never really asks me questions to continue the conversation so I just let them fizzle out. I'm really bad at dating, and I just get nervous that everything I do might screw this up. It's only so often someone makes me feel like that haha
Snakechammah Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Most people would say that starting a work relationship is bad news but I guess it depends on how strongly you feel about it. I understand that you may like the guy, but the more important question is.. does he like you? Has he done anything FOR YOU to warrant such an interest?
Assasda Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Yeah, I agree that he may not be interested right now. but the thing is... Does he know you yet? Hate when people think that guys are just visual robots that care nothing about personality. So what you want to do is show him what kinda person you are. Let him know what kinda stuff youre into, what kinda movies you like and so on. He probably doesnt even know what type of sense of humor you have. So... Try to get him to know the inside you, not just the outside you
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