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My ex just texted me happy birthday...


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She broke up with me and have been broken up for 2 months from a 4 year relationship. We haven't talked or seen each Other since. Should I text her back or no?

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People are going to say its just a breadcrumb (it probably is) and to just avoid it.

 

However, I would respond with just a "thanks!" and leave it at that. If she goes further with the texting then I would reassess.

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Reminds me that my ex's birthday was 4 days ago.

 

I wouldn't, or I would keep it short.

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Nope, don't send a thing. It's a polite courtesy on her part, not the first of 74 dominoes that needs to fall for you to be reconciled.

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Just say thanks. No harm and you won't come across as a dick ignoring her.

 

Happy birthday :)

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No. Birthdays and holidays are not reasons to break NC.

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She did it to ease her conscience and feel less guilty about dumping you, the text is all about her and not at all about you.

 

why the heck would you want to ease her guilt by texting her back a thank you?

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